What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Dallas, Texas
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Sex with Someone Else’s Girlfriend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She looks cute, she’s a bit short, but she’s got amazing tits and a really nice body with a good ass. Overall, she’s hot.I knew her pretty well as she’s been an acquaintance since high school.But we did not speak much, and we did not hook up before.So I went for a trip during spring break with a couple of my friends, we incidentally met her and her boyfriend there. It was a beach trip and they started tagging along with us. I realized she had extremely hot legs. But I did not make a move as she was with her boyfriend.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In that trip her boyfriend got drunk once and created a scene, and she came to me after that and I consoled her. Nothing happened but we felt a connection and plus, her boyfriend was a big dick! We held hands once in that trip and she kissed me on my cheek, but that’s it. But we kept in touch afterwords and the chats became hornier day by day, and eventually we started hooking up. First time I hooked up was at her apartment when her boyfriend wasn’t there.I instigated in the chat gradually but she immediately reciprocated. I was very clear from the beginning that it’s just gonna be a hook up and nothing serious to which she gladly agreed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The hook up was very eventful. We generally never used to speak about her boyfriend as if he did not exist which was a bit weird. She loved getting nibbled at the neck, our sex was moderately rough and I loved the way she used to bite my lower lips. We had sex in most positions, she loved to be on top and I loved the scissor position. There was a lot of oral sex involved, I used to finger her a lot, lick her pussy, she used to enjoy it, I also sometimes used to fuck her while fingering her ass. We had anal quite a few times. She like it, bit I was the one who always had to initiate it. Many times we used simple props, like blindfold, ice etc.We had decent conversations but mostly it was about sex, at least in the beginning. It ended as her boyfriend found out and it was bad, plus she got a little serious despite us being very clear at the beginning. In between before her boyfriend found out we had taken a break for about 6 months, and I started dating which got pretty serious, and she took offense to that and started acting super weird. After my break up, everything went back to normal, before her boyfriend found out.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt alright, not that guilty at all as I mentioned her boy friend was a dick, and I was pretty sure he was fucking around too.I have no expectations apart from a another casual hook up in the future.I feel the same way, we actually became friends, but I can never get into serious relationship with this person as the mentality does not match

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, I was feeling lonely, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I did talk about it with a couple of friends. The reactions were pretty basic, one said not to do it as it might get complicated due to the boyfriend situation.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I loved the sex, she was almost up for anything

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Her boyfriend situation and when she started get serious about it

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have no idea, I feel that sex is very normal thing, if people are consenting it shouldnt be a big deal and also it’s personal, respecting one’s privacy in this case is very important

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool

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