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by Andy P
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? melbourne
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 90
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
Sex-Starved Aunty Hungry for Orgasms
How long ago did this hookup happen? 36 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My ” aunty ” was a widowed neighbour , a family friend in her early 60’s – a retired school teacher. She was prim and proper, glasses, short hair , always a conservative dresser. I used to mow her lawn and trim her garden – my mother and her were good friends and used to go shopping and socialising. I called her aunty and never thought of her sexually.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had spent all day gardening in the summer heat, pruning and removing a dead tree. She asked me in for a cold drink and some food at the end of the day. She knew my mother was away overnight visiting her daughter and I was by myself that day and night. Unusually my aunty had mad a large platter of sandwiches and had opened a bottle of wine and had cold beers – usually I just had a soft drink with her. I was hungry and tired and wanted to go home and have a shower and relax with some videos I had rented.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I relaxed, ate some sandwiches, had three beers and she drank a couple of glasses of cold white wine. I had never seen her drink before and she was wearing clothes that made her look younger than usual – shorts with a low cut blouse. I wondered whether she was using contacts as her glasses were gone.
I told her I had better go home, put the tools away and have a shower.
She said could you come and hang a new print she had bought for me in her bedroom – she said she had everything set up and just needed someone tall to change the picture.
We walked in and I removed the existing print and hung and adjusted the new one for her. I turned around to ask what she thought and she had removed her top and bra and was taking off her shorts.
I had not had sex for months and immediately became erect. She came over and we deep kissed passionately. We both took our clothes off and quickly ended up on the bed. Soon I started kissing, massaging, fingering and licking her vagina. She writhed and moaned in deep pleasure and after about 5 minutes had a massive orgasm. Fuck me, fuck me, please she told me. I needed no encouragement – we had sex in missionary position and after about ten minutes I felt her pent up urge coming again, I came deeply and long inside her and I felt her follow me as I finished coming.
Around 20 minutes later my erection was back strongly and we had sex again with her on top. I could see she was blissed out .I stayed the night and we had sex once more later and again in the morning. I left and went home glowing after a pleasurable night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had sex on 5 separate occasions after- she was terrified that my mother would find out. She confided with me that she had never orgasmed before with anyone and rarely had sex with her husband – who was her first sexual partner. She told me she never loved her husband – but he was the only person to ever ask her out. She admitted that she had been wanting to have sex with me for ages and had planned it.
She looked and dressed younger after our encounters and ended up going out with a divorced teacher around her age from the local area that she met. I think my mother sensed something was between us – she was astounded in the sudden change in our neighbour – appearance wise and behaviour wise – she was like a different person. She moved in with her new friend and they bought a place together. I started going out with a local girl I met.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, Everyone else was/is doing it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A couple of male friends years later
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We both had convenient sex and fun
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I think my mother thought that she may have taken advantage of me
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? If it feels good …. do it ! , Your sexual maturity comes about through experiencing sex with different people.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I think we both helped one another in life’s journey. I would have liked to have kept in contact.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People need to enjoy,celebrate and have sex more openly these days as a healthy part of their lives
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A great avenue for people to enjoy their sexuality with others
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