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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Washington, DC
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Server/Intern
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Potentially Fluid, I’ve had fantasies about hooking up with women but never have.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Sex In a Stranger’s Office
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J was tall, I want to say 6″4. White, blond hair, blue eyes, skinny but muscular. We met my first day at college, his first day too and within a week we had started hooking up. Being new at school we both lived in dorms with roommates so we were often creative (or not so creative) with where we would get it on. Being young and dumb we often disregarded everyone around us and would be extreme with our PDA on the quad, at frat parties/house parties, and the like. We even got hot and heavy in the front yard of our university President’s house (it was next to his dorm room). Eventually we were fully hooking up. Most nights we had sex. There were few nights where we didn’t have sex. Both of us were insatiable. Fucking all the time, a lot of times multiple times at night, and again in the morning. He had a beautiful cock. Big. BIG. Cut and pink. I lost my virginity to one of the prettiest cocks I have seen to this day.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well one night I came back to campus really drunk and really horny after a sorority event, so I hit him up. He met me on the quad and we went at it. I straddled him on a bench in the middle of the quad and he fingered me under my skirt. I was extremely wet and I could feel how hard he was beneath me. It was hot but we stopped because a girl walked by us and I was embarrassed that we got caught. I started drunkenly whining that we wouldn’t be able to fuck because my roommate was already asleep in my room and his in his room and I didn’t want to hook up with anyone else there. Luckily at that moment, a friend of mine at the time walked by and decided to say hello. I was super drunk so I told her all about my dilemma while J waited some feet away. That’s when she handed me her campus ID card. She worked in the student center. As she handed me her card she said to me, “this will open any locked door in SC (student center). Just take it and give it back to me tomorrow.” She slapped my ass and walked away. I felt like she was my guardian angel or something. I ran to J excitedly, grabbed his hand and led him to SC.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I used her card to open what was basically the head of Greek Life’s office- we’ll call him C. As soon as we were in, J and I were going at it. I was so wet and ready to go. He sat down in C’s chair and I hiked up my skirt and straddled him. I took of J’s shirt while he pushed my lacy thong to the side and immediately began fingering me again. It felt so good and I felt so naughty hooking up in C’s office. ( C was really a stranger to me. I only know his name because I was in a sorority and he was in charge of Greek Life. I knew of him as being kind of an asshole and always trying to shut parties down so I felt really good about hooking up in his office without his knowledge). Anyway, I unzipped J’s pants and pulled out his thick, hard cock, and began stroking it. I wanted it in my pussy so badly. J must have understood because he picked me up and laid me down on C’s desk.
Then J bent over me, put my legs on his shoulders, and put his face close to mine. He whispered to me, “you want me to fuck you?”J and I didn’t usually talk dirty to each other so this drove me wild. I managed a whimper of a “yes please” and J slid his thickness into me. Instantly I was going crazy. It felt so fucking good. I was moaning and saying his name over and over again as he fucked me hard. I was a bit loud, and campus security was patrolling the building. When we heard some voices down the hall J put his hand over my mouth, cutting off air, and whispered to me to be quiet. He stared into my eyes, challenging me, as he continued to fuck me. I could hardly stand it. I quickly came all over his cock, closing my eyes as I spasmed. When the voices disappeared he fucked me even harder, calling me his dirty girl the whole time. I loved it. After he came inside me, he let his body weight fall onto me and we stayed like that for a minute, sweating and panting on C’s desk while J was still inside me. Eventually we got dressed and stumbled out of there, giggling. Best sex I’ve had so far.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great. It was so hot knowing what we had done. J and I continued hooking up and eventually dating. We were on and off for a year and a half. It turned out to be a really bad, toxic relationship and now we do not speak, but while we were strong, the sex was GOOD. I regret how much time I spent with J and not hooking up with other guys (because he sure hooked up with other girls while we were together, but that’s another story) but I learned a lot from that relationship.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told close friends of mine, and whoever asks me for the story of the best sex I’ve ever had. If they don’t know J, I don’t use names.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How HOT it was, and that J and I then had a sexy little secret to share. It wasn’t just boring old dormitory sex. It felt more grown up than that at the time.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it kept me on the path with him. He ended up being really bad for me and I was extremely unhappy towards the end of our relationship.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, except that I want more of that someday.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I like casual sex! I love sex, but I also love intimacy. I’ve never been one to be open to that many one night stands, although after somewhat of a dry spell I’m definitely considering having a few. But I will never judge women who love casual sex in it’s most casual form. I think it’s wonderful that people can have casual sex now. I want to have more of it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is awesome!!
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