by Bobby

Gender: Female
Age: 33
Race/ethnicity: Black British
Current location: London
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Self employed
Relationship status: Co-habiting
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Sex Texting Had To Deliver

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4yrs

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This story relates to someone I have already written about (See ‘The tattoo that tipped me over the edge’).
Following that first and only night with him (and finding out he had a girlfriend), by this point we had been sex texting for approx 2yrs. He was a great sex text/caller, really dirty kinky stuff he’d come out with.  I’d often cum with the things he would be saying.
He didn’t have the balls to physically play behind his girls back, but then he split up with her. And this was my time (oh yeah!).

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were sex texting that night, he was out with his friends drinking but not drunk. I told him to get a cab to mine, which he did.
I’d been waiting for this day for a while, but started freaking out. I looked the same if not better, and started thinking ‘ What if he’s put on weight? What if I don’t fancy him anymore?!’.  He was on his way, so would just have to deal with it when he got to my place.  I wasn’t disappointed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He’d been drinking but wasn’t drunk and also he had some drugs on him. It was a fun night.
During the night we didn’t have vaginal or anal sex. There was only oral sex and other foreplay. Most of the night was spent with both of us being naked dancing around the room to music, frolicking in and off the bed and talking. It was kind of a catch up on the past 2yrs session……….while naked. It was lots of fun.
In the morning we had sex a few times in the midst of talking generally about our lives and comparing nights out.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We both asked each other when the last time had an STI test and if it was negative.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Had been trying to get him back into my bed after all the texts.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes to both. Medium use

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued to hook up with each other as fuck buddies up until I met my current partner.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Close friends knew.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes to both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No way

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hook up was that we were both still very sexually attracted to each other after 2yrs of not seeing one another. No bad things.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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