What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Sex with a friend’s Dad!
How long ago did this hookup happen? a few weeks back
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Frank is the father of a friend from high school. He is in his mid to late fourties. I don t know his exact age. He is pretty sporty and still has his full hair.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to visit my parents during the semester break. During that visit, I went to a village party in another village to meet up with some high school friends.
At that dance party, I met the father of one of my high school friends. He lives in that village. Unfortunately, his daughter, who is a friend of mine was not there so I could not meet up with her. We started chatting. He knows me because I used to be in a sports club with him and his daughter. We had not seen each other since I graduated from High school and went to study in a different city.
Frank told me he is divorced now. We danced and he got a bit flirty. I left him for a bit to hang out with my friends. We had a few beers. Later on in the evening, he approached me again and we chatte some more. He casually touched me. I got a bit excited and horny. I understood that he was interested in me. I had never been with an older guy before but I thought that he is still looking pretty sexy. I really did not know whether I should go for it. My friends would notice if he picked me up and that could be embarrassing.
I told him that I needed to leave to catch the last bus home. He suggested that I could stay at his house so I could enjoy the party as long as i wanted to. Since I had trust in him and did not want to leave i agreed to that. So I went back to my friends.
I met Frank a third time during the party, this time outside. We chatted again, sitting next to each other. This time he went for it. He touched my knee and legs. I was shocked at first, but then decided to go for it because i was curious about doing it with an older guy. It felt kind of kinky. I kissed him and we started to make out. After a bit he suggested that maybe it is time to leave the party. I agreed and went home with Frank.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? we went to Franks house and started to make out on his sofa. He did not hesitate much and went on to touch my boobs getting under my clothes. I told Frank I wanted to be naked and undressed in front of him. We continued to make out on the sofa with me being naked. He touched my clitoris and I got very very horny. I opened his shirt to feel his muscular body. He opened his pants and I gave him a blowjob, sitting in front of him. Now this felt incredibly kinky. Sitting naked in front of a half dressed older man giving oral sex! However, I did not think it was creepy. I was pretty comfortable with Frank and came to the conclusion that there was nothing wrong with having sex with him.
After a bit of oral sex, he suggested going to his bed room. There, he got a condom from his drawer and put it on. I went to ride on him. He did this thing that he put a finger into my bumhole while we were fucking. That felt pretty strange, but also good.
After sex, we cuddled a bit and fell asleep.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day, he woke me up with a kiss. I looked at him, understanding that alcohol must have played a role in the previous night. But I still felt attracted to him so we had sex again in the morning.
We discussed matters over breakfast and decided to call it a one night stand and not see each other any more. I live in a different city anyway and we realised having a relationship would feel pretty weird considering his daughter being my high school friend.
Frank drove me home. When it came to saying good-bye we kissed passionately. After that, we could not help ourselves and exchanged telephone numbers.
I think I will contact him next time I go to visit my parents!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends had figured out what had happened. I talked to one of them on the phone. She was pretty surprised, giggled and could hardly believe it. She promised not to let Franks daughter know. It felt a bit embarrassing to talk about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was very good sex. I learned that it is ok to have sex with much older people.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I want to see Frank again but that will not happen before christmas. My friends figured out what had happened.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I changed my approach to who is ok to be intimate with. I think I want to be much more open to casual sex from now on.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have not had that much casual sex until now, but I want to have more in the future. I think that people around me are fine with casual sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? nice website. Is this really scientific research?
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