What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Writer/Graduate Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None, this will be my first
Sex with a Younger Guy
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? MB is a tall, dark, and extremely handsome black man and he is 25 years old. We met several years ago at work. We were immediately attracted to one another then and very early on, we discussed hooking up casually. We had hooked up several times years ago but had not seen each other in over 2 years.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Most recently, I knew he was in a relationship so I did not really communicate with him, friendly or otherwise. Early Monday morning he messaged me through social media. He stated that he missed me and wanted to spend time with me again. I confirmed that he and his girlfriend had broken up before agreeing to see him again. Once I agreed, he was at my house within an hour. He had texted saying he wanted to feel me again and most importantly, he wanted to eat me out for the first time.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
When he arrived, he wasted no time before pulling me close to him, kissing me passionately, and cupping my ass with his large hands. He had changed, physically. His body was much stockier than he had been years earlier. I could tell he had been working out, which turned me on even more. As he thrust his tongue into my mouth, his hands were finding their way all over my body. I couldn’t stop running my hands up and down his large biceps and across his muscular back. We were both moaning with desire and I no longer worried if this was a good choice or not. We went upstairs to my bedroom where he instantly began removing my clothes. As we kissed, items of clothing were hitting the floor. Before long, we were both naked, his thick cock pressed against my stomach. He threw me onto the bed and went down on me for the first time. I couldn’t catch my breath. His hot mouth felt amazing against my swollen pussy. I felt his tongue sliding in and out of my pussy and finding my clit to tease me more. He held onto my hips and my ass pulling my body up off the bed to meet his mouth. Many orgasms later, he stood up and grabbed me by my hips and shoved his big, thick cock deep into my soaking wet pussy stating, “Give Daddy that good pussy, baby”. That pushed me over the edge of another orgasm. He fucked me harder than I had been fucked in a long time and gave me just what I needed. He filled my pussy, pounding harder and harder, deeper and deeper. I was screaming with pleasure. I couldn’t take much more. After leaning down and kissing me, I felt his cum inside of me. When he pulled his cock out, it was covered in the white cream from both of us. If I could have, I would have taken a picture. Seeing my cream all over his black cock was so fucking hot.
We took a break and talked about life, work, kids, etc. While we talked, I kissed his body and ran my fingers up and down his stomach. I noticed, before too long, his cock was rock hard again. I asked if he wanted more, even though he had to get to work. He said, “fuck work” and began fingering my pussy. While he fingered me, he licked and sucked on my clit once more. Then he thrust his throbbing cock back into my pussy for round two. I was so swollen from multiple orgasms and I was beginning to worry if I could take any more of his hard fucking. Just when I thought my screaming could be enough to make the neighbors call the cops, he finished and cum deep inside of me. We helped each other clean up and got dressed as we playfully chatted. I wish there will be more hookups. We ended the hookup with a kiss goodbye. But we texted about it later in the day.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now?
I am still horny for him! I will definitely have more hookups with him. He is very clear in the understanding that we can only continue, though, if both of us are not in relationships.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told a couple of friends that know all about my casual hookups and have casual hookups themselves. They were happy that I was satisfied.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It felt amazing!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I didn’t get to do more with him.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Still an advocate of casual sex between consenting partners. I am very comfortable with my sexuality and confident in myself.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex can have as many negative issues as it does positive. I believe much of it depends on the maturity of the people involved as well as their reasons for seeking casual sex. I would like to see our society stop judging people based on their sexual preferences and their choices as long as they are involved with other consenting adults, and not harming the partner in any way.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s interesting and I am very intrigued by the idea.
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