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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Jeff Davis Parish
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Operator
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Sex With Ex

How long ago did this hookup happen? Years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a single blonde neighbor, and we had become friends with benefits.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened at my house, which was right next to hers.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was being stingy with her pussy since it was the first time I was seeing her naked, and women typically want to be tight the first time. So, she rolled me over, and I was wondering if it was over since she wouldn’t let me in her pussy. But then she started kissing me and went down to my pants. She unbuttoned them and reached in and grabbed my cock. She pulled it out and put the head of my dick in her mouth and started going at it. As I watched her, I warned her as I was about to explode because I didn’t know how she felt about cum. Well, I warned her as I moaned, about to burst. I gave her one more warning, but she was fixed on my dick, and I exploded. I could hear her trying to keep up with my load, and as I grew weaker, she stayed with it and she cleaned every drop of cum. As she finished, I said, “Yes. I got a winner.”

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I feel a lot better about it now.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The nude body of hers.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Not now

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It has been a big part of my fantasies.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Okay.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!