What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? LA area
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Server
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? <30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Sex With Mom’s Boyfriend
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Bill (not real name), has been living with my mom for 5 years. He’s average build and 49 years old.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Mom’s a nurse and works long hours. It was October 31 and she got called into work. It had been 3 months since I had broken up with my last boyfriend and 4 months since I’d had sex so needless to say, I was in the mood. A friend from school invited me to a Halloween party and told me all the girls would be wearing sexy costumes and I should be able to find a hook-up there. I’m tall, slender, long brown hair and brown eyes. I went dressed as Harley Quinn. My costume was a hit but there weren’t any single guys to hook-up with so I left early.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I came home and Bill was watching a movie. He told me mom got called into work and just left. I sat on the couch and watched the movie. He could tell I was bummed and I told him what was going on. He admitted that he was feeling frustrated too because my mom went to work when he’s home and when he’s at work, she’s home. They never cross paths anymore.
The next thing I know, I’m sucking his dick and next we were having sex in the living room. It didn’t last long and I told him it was cool to finish in me. Afterward, I took a shower and went to bed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was awaken the next morning with the smell of breakfast cooking. Mom had just got home and was cooking. The three of us ate and chatted. Bill left for work, mom went to bed and I left for school.
Bill and I have hooked-up 3 times since. I’m sure he likes the arrangement. We both agree it’s just sex. For me, it’s convenient sex. Bill’s an average partner to hook-up with. Not saying he’s bad but I’ve had bigger and much better. We’ve hooked up 4 times and he’s yet to offer me oral or come close to giving me an orgasm. I kinda feel sorry for mom.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. I thought about telling my good friend. She would be cool with it but I keep thinking how would I tell this story? “Hey, I’m having below average sex with my mom’s live in boyfriend.” Maybe if he had went down on me or given me an orgasm I would feel different about sharing.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex. I was needing sex bad.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? His performance and size.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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