by iLoveLucy

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Black
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: I have a fuck buddy but this story is about my crush
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Sex With My Dream Guy

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand…so far

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Looks like a dream.
We go to the same school so we’re less than casual friends, acquaintances really but I know a lot about him.
Hooked up once before as in a super sloppy drunk make out session (he was drunk I was just buzzing).
Met in college.
I was totally enamored by him. Biggest crush of my life! Been crushing for 2 years now.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So it went like this: I knew he was throwing a party the other night but I decided not to go so I could stay in and get drunk with my friends. Definitely got turned up then I decided to snapchat him around 3am to ask if it was too late to come to the party (knowing full well the party had dwindled by that hour). We exchanged a couple of flirtatious snaps & he asked me if I wanted to come over. We texted for a bit. Then a sober friend dropped me off at his place.
We spoke for awhile then he made a move & that was that.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out first then had vaginal sex. He asked me if I give head then I gave him head & we fucked some more. The sex was stupid good! Like I couldn’t believe it! I could barely handle his penis, it hit the spot so well, it hurt so good. He had me in different positions… just yes. But I got tired eventually because it was so good.
He was a gentleman in the bedroom… as far as that goes.
I usually don’t say much during sex but I was saying a lot through most of the act.
I spent the night then he wanted to go for another round in the morning but I literally couldn’t have handled it anymore.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I definitely came. I was pretty drunk, thinking back to this night. The first time he couldn’t come so we stopped and talked for awhile & he was still on hard then we had a round 2 so he could get his.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None. I know I’m terrible. Gonna go buy a plan b tomorrow.
Being drunk is not an excuse people!

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I have had a huge crush (for good reason too – more than a physical attraction, he is going places in life and now I know his sex game is A1) on him for two years now! & everybody knows it. Staked my claim a long time ago & now I got it!

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I was more drunk than I thought I was at the time but still functioning well. He was a level below me (less drunk than I).

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We know enough about each other to have a real conversation so we talked after until we fell asleep. I think I fell asleep on him bc he wore me out. We woke up talked longer then went to eat breakfast & he took me home.
I felt in awe that I had accomplished this impossible feat of mine & amazed at how satisfying it was.
I really want to hang out with him outside of the bedroom. Don’t want this to turn into a fuck buddy situation because I still have a huge crush on him.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Good friends. Everyone was beyond happy for me.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was wanted by me for sure. I think he wanted this too because his drunk self tried it once but he was so gone he couldn’t get it together & I stopped it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? NEVER #NoRagrets (regrets is misspelled on purpose in case you haven’t seen We Are The Millers).

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: He put me in my favorite sex position (speed bump), he got me to talk during the act, he was still himself throughout.
Worst: he didn’t come the first time,  no condom used.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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