by Bardah

Gender: Male
Age: 26
Race/ethnicity: European
Current location: Guatemala
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Businessman
Relationship status: In two relationships
Religious affiliation: Spiritual
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I consider it fluid
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Wish I could remember…
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Sex With My Ex Brother In Law

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was my sister’s ex boyfriend, we had never hooked up with him. We met in our house, I was feeling really excited, I had always liked him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was indeed planned, I had not seen him since he broke up with my sister. We were chatting, and he said we should get together sometime, I suggested that we should smoke a cigarette and have a chat in person, but he added ‘yeah, and a wank would be nice too’. I laughed and agreed, although I was not sure if it was a serious proposal or only a joke.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First I invited him to my room, he was nervous, it was his first experience with a man. We sat on my bed and talked for a while, then I asked if it was alright for us to do it, he agreed, it took him a while for him to be ready to take his pants off. I was feeling excited and nervous too, I just wanted to get going but I understood the bloke needed some time. When he got hard he got the courage to take his pants off, I took mine off too and we began wanking each other, then I performed some fellatio on him and ended up rimming his ass. It seemed he really enjoyed it.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? He did, a big one. I didn’t, but it was good. I don’t need to have an orgasm to have a good time, I think orgasms are over rated.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Yes I told him I perform an HIV test regularly, and he said he had been tested in the past. He also said he had had the mono, and since I had never had it we chose not to kiss.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Fun.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had drunk a couple of drinks and had done coke the day before. He seemed he had taken a few more drinks before the hook-up but he was not drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I hoped that this would repeat at least one more time, and it did. After that I didn’t want things to go further, it was an experience thing. Then a year later he moved to another country, I still talk to him every now and then.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend. He was not surprised.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, for both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best, how he moaned when I played with his ass. The worst, he insisted to cum in my face.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I still feel scared about my sister finding out. XD

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