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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Job
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Nil

Sex with neighbour

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This lady stays in the same building where I shifted on rent last year. She is the cousin sister of my landlord and she use to take care of administrative part of the rent agreement, so I had to deal with her for any help I need as I was new to the building and my landlord doesn’t stay in the same town. She is a 41 year old lady having voluptuous figure, fair, tall, clear skin, big eyes, sharp features and long hair. Though she is bit heavy in figure, she looks very sexy and has nice assets. I met her first time when my land lord introduced me to her and told me that now onwards she will take care of administrative part. She offered me a cup of coffee and we chatted briefly. I was happy to meet her and she seemed to be a nice cooperative lady to me. Her husband is working in some Middle East country and he comes once in a year. She has two kids and both of them are in boarding school and she is working for an mnc here.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After our introduction was done I met her couple of times at her house which is 2 floors below where I live. Since I have shifted new to the building and I was alone I needed some basic help from her regarding, plumbing services, electrical, cleaning etc so I used to message her and mostly she use to call me to her place between 8-9 pm after she was back from work. In first month we met for two or three times then we didn’t met for almost 2 months. We might bump in to each other sometimes in either lift or building lobby and there was casual hi hello. I use to find her very sexy and attractive as she use to carry her self very well. In third month suddenly she called me one day when I was at work, we chatted for a while and then she offered me to come to her place for dinner on Saturday. Generally Saturday is weekly off for both of us so I agreed to her invitation. Though I dint knew her well, and I also felt bit strange, but I thought she is a nice friendly lady and I found her attractive also so I was happy to accept the invitation. On Saturday I went for dinner, since I did not know her well I thought it would be good to take some gift and I bought flower vas for her. I went around 7 pm at her place, she opened the door and welcomed me with a big smile and hug. I got bit surprised because I was getting hug from her. She was wearing pink mock neck halter body con dress with front slit and backless with her hair open and fully decked up with make up. She was looking sexy. I felt little awkward as I dressed very casually. I was wearing cotton trousers and polo neck t-shirt. I felt stupid and told my self that I should have dressed properly. We sat and she offered me a drink. Then we chatted but my eyes were rolling on her boobs as it were coming half out from that mock neck dress. I could also see her nipples point from the dress as it was made of satin cloth and she wasn’t wearing anything inside as it was halted neck. She also observed that I was watching her, but she just smiled. Whenever she went into some other room I would see her round bums from the dress which were so sexy. After a couple of drinks, she came and sat next to me very close. I felt strange, but I was enjoying and then she suddenly kept her hand on my thighs and started asking me about my office girls and my girlfriends. I told her that I don’t have any girl friends right now and she started laughing. Then she slowly took her hand on my chest and came very closer to me…I could sense that her breath become heavy, before I could understand anything I just took her in my arms and gave her a tight hug and started smooching her red hot lips.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She also grabbed me by my face and started smooching me. I opened my mouth and she was rolling her tounge inside my mouth. By now my hands were all one her boobs. She immediately removed my tshirt and started kissing me on my chest. She was also biting me, which was painful but I was enjoying. Her one hand went on my penis and she unzipped my pants. I removed my pant and underwear, I was full nude and my penis was completely erect. She told me to just stand like that and kept watching me for some time. Now she stood up and took me to her bed room. She laid me on her bed and removed her dress. She was wearing a thong panty inside and nothing upper. She had a curvy figure. Her boobs very big, but a bit saggy. She had black nipples but very erect. I removed her panty and she was clean shaven. She started playing with my penis, she kept on rolling her tounge on my penis and she was gently stroking it with her hands. She started giving me blow job and then started kissing my balls. After that I took her on me and started sucking her nipples and boobs. She was moaning loud. There was a big mirror in front of her bed and both of us were seeing our actions in mirror and getting excited. Then I made her lay and went down and started licking her vagina. Her juices were coming out and it made her vagina very wet. I was enjoying rolling my tounge on her vagina. She had a nice vagina with good skin around it. She crossed both her legs and pressed my face on her vagina and started moaning loud. I felt she was getting orgasms so I kept licking her vagina fast and was putting my tounge inside out and she was enjoying it too much. Her vagina juices made my whole face wet. Then I stood up and made her come on top of me. She put her vagina on my penis head and just slipped it inside. Her vagina was warm from inside. She began stroking and I was playing with her boobs and nipples. We fucked for some time and then she went came below me and I started stroking her fast and with a jerk I ejaculated inside her. It was awesome sex with her. We laid down for some time, then cleaned ourselves and had our dinner. She was cuddling with me, playing with me and enjoying the dinner. We both were very happy. She told me that she has best sex after long time. After dinner we watched television together for sometime and then again went in bedroom. She told me that she need anal sex. She removed condom and gelly from cupboard and gave it to me. This time without too much of foreplay I directly started fucking her anally. She was in doggy style. I was enjoying here back view she was fucking sexy with big buttocks. I stroked very hard and she was enjoying and screaming. I started to slap her buttocks and she was moaning and screaming. She was screaming fuck my ass hard and I was doing it and we both enjoyed a lot. After we finished we took shower together. It was almost 12.30 am so she insisted that I sleep with her. We slept together. As I wasn’t carrying my night wear she gave me her husband pyjamas to wear and we slept together.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Next day morning I left after my morning coffee. I was little shy as she was smiling at me. Then we did this couple of more weekends and then her husband came for 2 months so we couldn’t met and in the mean time my job got transferred to other city. I would still want to meet her if I get option. She is damn hot and I enjoyed having sex with her as she was loving me with full passion.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex with her

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Secrecy to be maintained and fear of getting caught

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I am looking for more opportunities now

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I feel if two adults consent it’s nothing wrong to fulfill your physical needs.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I don’t know much about it

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