What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Airlines supervisor
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No love, guys & sex
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Six
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Sex with Two Guys at My Job in Eight Hours
How long ago did this hookup happen? One month ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? These two guys have been working with me for 10 years or more. One guy works the am shift with me and the other guy works the pm shift I am the supervisor but sometimes I work overtime. The guys were always nice to me and I have had lunch with them at different times.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began at work. It was planned since I had my own office and only I had the key. Some mornings, one of the guys would bring me coffee and pastries. And when I worked overtime with the other guy, he would buy me lunch. Both guys told me that I was sexy and they liked me. So the guys instigated the hookup more than me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first hookup happened on the morning shift. We went into the family station and locked the door. He raised my skirt up and pulled my panties down, picked me up on the table, opened my legs, and started licking my clit and pussy, I was so wet with cum. Then he turned me over and started fucking me doggy style, fast and hard. His cock was so big and I felt so good. He was very good. After, I went back to my locker room and showered. Before he left for the day, he told me that my pussy was good. That day I had to work overtime, so I saw the other guy. He brought lunch to my office at 7:00 pm and he told me that he liked my hair and the perfume I wear. He said that he would like to taste my pussy. I was in shock!! I had never had sex with two different guys in one day. I locked the door to my office. This man licked and sucked my clit so good, I was coming so much. Then I got on top and he grabbed my ass as I was going up and down on his cock!! I exploded with come and he did too. He told me that he really liked my pussy and asked if we could meet on our off days.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I like both guys and I know I can have good sex with each guy or both guys in a day. It worked out well. I will see one of the guys on Sunday & Monday and the other guy on Wednesday & Thursday. I liked both guys a lot.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my best girlfriend of 15 years. She was jealous, she said that she knows that my pussy felt good. And she wished it was her.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had two different guys in one day. And the sex was different with each guy. I was able to have multiple orgasms.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all, I love casual sex as long as all parties agree.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Yes, I am thinking that maybe one day I will get both guys in my bed and we can have a threesome.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I feel if you have consent for casual sex, it will be fine if you are happy and your partners are happy. Live life and don’t care what people think.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great project. I’m glad I can talk about sex with my different partners.
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