What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1 up till two years ago, plus another 8 since
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Two years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I just moved to England for graduate school. I LOVE English girls. It’s almost a fetish. Maybe it is the accent, or their sense of style, or having grown up in community where there were a lot of classmates had English roots. This contributed to my choice to move from Toronto to England for my graduate studies. When I arrived, I thought I was in heaven. English chicks everywhere, although there were also lots of students from all over the world. It was very easy to socialize. I met Emma from classes. I loved her name: very elegant, very British, very sexy. We had a first date with lots of flirting and getting to know each other. I’ve never been so flirty and sexually forward before. Being in a new country had that effect on me. She turned me down to go hook up. She did accept a second date a week later.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The second date was at a pub. I suggested we go for a walk along the river. It was getting cold at night, so I suggested we come back to my flat.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were both inexperienced at sex. But I was determined to pleasure her and give her a good time. While I may have a sexual fetish for English girls, I also do want to have a relationship with one too. So I spent lots of time being gentle and affectionate. Lots of kissing and stroking before taking off our clothes. I then started eating her our. She seemed apprehensive at first but quickly start making soft moaning noises. I lasted as long as I could licking her until my tongue was sore. Then we started having sex. I went slow, because I didn’t want to cum before she had an orgasm. I picked up the pace as I heard her moans. I asked her if she enjoyed this position (missionary). She said yes. I told her to lets try something else. So we tried doggy style too. I was able to fuck harder and faster in this position, and the bed was making a lot of noises. Before I came, we went back to missionary, and after some more sex, I came.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I wasn’t just interested in hooking up. I was also interested in a relationship. We cuddled a bit afterwards, then she wanted to go home. I offered to walk her back, but she said she was okay to go back on her own. I tried to have another date with her, but she declined. She said she enjoyed the sex, but was not ready for anything serious. I was a bit upset about that, but only for a couple days. Maybe I was coming on too strong about a relationship, even though I never mentioned anything. So from that point onwards, I resolved to continue being more sexually forward, but being more nonchalant about hooking up.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t tell anyone
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? My first lay with an English girl.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There was no further hook-up with her.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I learned to be more sexually forward to get a girl in bed, and I resolved to not convey any sense of interest in anything afterwards. It makes things easier emotionally, and I found out later that aloofness actually generates better response from girls for more follow-up sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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