What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Phoenix
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Security
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Sexual Tension & What Ensued
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met at an old job we worked at. She was with somebody at the time, but we were definitely attracted to each other from the start. She’s about 4’10, 110 pounds, with a thin frame, nice B cup breasts, and creamy white skin.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We often went out for drinks every week to hang out and talk about the shitty relationships we were in. One thing led to another and we began sexting at some point. One night, she invited me over to her place after drinks to watch a movie.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we were sitting on her couch watching the film, she decided to take her pants off. When she came back to the couch to sit next to me, she began acting very flirtatious and kept touching me and rubbing her leg on mine. I kept peaking down at her panties and couldn’t help myself anymore. I leaned in and we started making out while I rubbed her pussy through her underwear. Her panties were soaked after about a minute of this, so I peeled them off her and asked her to go to the bed. Somewhere along the line, she stripped down completely and assumed the position of doggy style on her bed. She was spread wide open and waiting for me. I quickly undressed and stepped behind her, giving her clit a good smack with my cock before diving inside. She was so wet I slid right in. I pulled her arms behind her back because I knew she liked it rough and pounded her with vigor. I pulled out and let her finish me off with her mouth and hands all over her clean bed sheets.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both felt great about things the next day. We’ve hooked up here and there since then and really enjoy each other’s company. At this point, I’m sure we are what you would call friends with benefits.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend. He told me I’m too old to be banging 22-year-olds, but I highly disagree.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Everything was great, but my favorite part is when she let me pin her arms behind her back and just go to town on it. I’m very dominant at times and when a woman yearns for rough uninhibited pounding it’s the ultimate turn on for me.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I passed out sleeping before we could go again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was my first time having casual sex and I must say I enjoy it very much. It has taught me that sex doesn’t always HAVE to lead to a relationship or mean anything necessarily.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s awesome. 10/10 would do it again and have already.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome! Great outlet for aspiring erotica writers and kinky sods like myself to express ourselves.
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