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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Somewhere in Africa
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Taking some time off
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Currently nonexistent
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Maybe 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? First

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How long ago did this hookup happen? About a year and a half ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Let’s call him L. We met at a party the previous night andwe had spoken a bit. He had given me his number but I was too drunk to really notice him, and my friend was all over him that night, so I had dubbed him a no-go zone

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met again the day after, at the same house the party had been the night before. We were both just a little more sober. We were all hanging out as a group, and then someone suggested we go buy more booze, because the only way to beat a hungover is to stay drunk. We bought the liquor and then headed to the hotel where he was staying. After a couple of hours of a lot of drinks and almost getting kicked out for making too much noise, we decided to move the party elsewhere. We went out to a series of clubs, and we danced and drank some more until we were the only 2 people left( there were still a bunch of people around, most of our friends were still there). The sexual tension and alcohol had built up so much that suddenly it didn’t matter that his friend had been giving me the eye all night. It didn’t matter that he had tried to kiss me and, out of courtesy, I had kissed him back, or that he had been making out with my friend just before. Now, I wanted him and I could tell from the way he was looking at me that he wanted me too.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We decided to leave the club and head back to the hotel. I’m not sure who instigated it. We were in the car and he kissed me (our first kiss). The alcohol was buzzing so it was sloppy. He started pulling out and then one of his friends ran in front of the car, asking for a ride home. L accepted reluctantly, shooting me a look, and after dropping him off, we finally headed to Ls hotel room. Seeing as I was still buzzed, he helped me undress and guided me to the shower to help sober me up a bit. After a little while, he decided to join me and my jaw nearly dropped as I was awed looking at this magnificent beast of a man standing in front of me. He grabbed the soap and bathed me thoroughly, touching every inch of my body. I’m a goof, so I kept giggling and messing with the water temperature to keep myself distracted from how much I wanted him. I set the water to boiling hot to match how I was feeling inside. It was too much for him and so he left the shower, so I get out too.

L took a towel and wiped me dry before laying me down on my back on the bed. He crawled onto the bed, his hands groping my thighs as he inched his face in between my legs towards my pussy. He began with a lick and then a suck. His tongue trailed up to clit, then back down, and up again, licking and sucking at the same time. He could tell it was driving me wild as my hips thrust into his face, my orgasm building up from within. He could tell I was ready to explode so he moved faster, sucking harder, his tongue thrusting deeper until I couldn’t hold it in anymore and I came in his face. He licked up all my juices and he came up to kiss me, making me taste my own cum from his mouth. He kissed me passionately while he used his hand to rub his dick on my throbbing pussy. He slowly started to enter me, and I pulled away. it had been a while since I had been penetrated, so I was a little tight. He noticed my discomfort and went slow, pulling in and out as he entered deeper into me, until I finally took his full length. I let out a little moan as I had forgotten how good it felt to be filled. L fucked me with such conviction, it didn’t take long for the second orgasm to come, and with it, my mind blanked out for the rest of the night.

I woke up the next morning a bit disoriented, with L beside me. He asked me to get dressed and said that he has a meeting soon, so he asked a friend to pick me up and take me home. I got out of bed, put my clothes on, and sat by the coffee table, waiting for my ride. The ride showed up and he had asked his friend who had been hitting on me and kissed me the night before to pick me up from his hotel room after a night of steamy sex to drop me home.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? L gave me a hug and said he’d call and that we should hang out again. The car ride home was awkward.

I got home, took a shower, and tried to get back to my normal routine, while my heart was constantly waiting on the phone to ring. He never called.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Noone, but my friend found out and they were not happy. Words were said, names were called, and long story short, we aren’t the same friends as we were before.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Because he never called. I felt like I had a connection with him. I’m not a one-night stand type of girl and I had hoped more would come out of it.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was great.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Him not calling, it made me feel dirty.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has taught me never to throw all my eggs in one basket again, and never make judgments while horny.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I still think about it, or him, even now when I’m with someone else. He has become the object of all my sexual fantasies.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is not for everyone. I have tried it a few too many times to know that I always end up getting my feelings hurt.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like stories people post. They encouraged me to share my own.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!