What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los Angeles
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 300
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My primary partner was early 20s. White, brunette, freckles. 5’10, 36C. Thick in an athletic way. Gorgeous eyes. Incredibly open, sexual energy. Bisexual.
The other couple–also early 20s. White hispanic. Guest Female had black hair, bouncy body, outrageous ass. 34Cs. Effervescent, smart, bisexual. Just a great girl. He was also bisexual, just started exploring. Not so sure what he wanted.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were playing regularly with other couples–some met in person, some online. These were met online. They were smart, attractive, easy to talk to–seemed like a great match. But they postponed the first meeting. One of them was skittish (they had only swapped once before). Turns out it was him.
Due to schedules and distance (we lived about 90 minutes apart), our meetup was scheduled as a brunch at primary’s apartment. They brought stuff to make waffles. I made eggs and bacon and brunch cocktails. We may have also smoked a little.
The meal was very easygoing and segued to the bed…
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was playing with Guest Female. Touching, kissing. Right from the jump, something was special about how we were getting on. I pulled Primary into it as the clothes came off. Together we devoured Guest Female’s breasts. Guest pulled off my underwear and was very happy to meet my cock–I’m 8″ and thick with a cockhead that makes women (and men) salivate. As she took me in her mouth, Primary began to go down on her as she started stroking Guest Male (who had been leaning back).
After Guest F came, she wanted me to fuck her. Primary moved over to GM and started going down on him (I only learned later he was having trouble getting hard). I entered Guest F from behind and we just fit. The way her perfect ass hit my hip. The way I buried myself in her. I started lightly playing with her asshole while I fucked her and after I started fingering her ass, she turned around and whispered would I fuck her ass. I didn’t get lube, I didn’t need it. I just pushed in slowly, through each gasp, now fingering her pussy as she opened up. The other two didn’t realize I was soon pounding her ass; she whispered to me she hadn’t had her asked fucked in forever and she just needed it. After 10-12 minutes, she had cum twice more and asked me to cum, too. Where? She wanted it in her mouth. I pulled out, removed the condom, and she drank me down.
As we took a brief break, I moved back to Primary and went down on her for a bit, then when I was hard again, went inside her. She whispered how hot it had been watching me. Guest Male was having sex with Guest Female briefly. Primary suggested we swap again. I put on another condom and went inside Guest Female’s pussy, missionary. It was intense. For a second I felt guilty that I felt this much more connected to a relative stranger, but to do this day it was incredibly vivid and unusual. Primary and Guest Male only had sex for about 5 minutes, but Guest and I were together for another 20 with Primary coming over a few times to kiss GF. Then Primary went back to sucking GM (again he was having trouble getting it up), but GF and I were deep into each other. She reached between my legs and played with my balls until I was on the edge of cumming. I asked where she wanted it. She wanted this load inside her. She wanted to feel my shoot inside her. I did.
Afterwards she jumped off the bed. Super psyched. She wanted to go for another round. Said she’d never felt so good.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Only after GF jumped off did she realize her partner wasn’t having a great time (I only realized it then, too).
We all talked and wound up meeting up one more time. We tried to incorporate him more, but I don’t know if he was just not that into my primary or if he was put off by the chemistry I had with Guest Female.
It was a shame because she’s still one of the best sexual partners I’ve ever had. Would have loved to explore more.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The moments of secrecy, intimacy, intense connection in a group
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Guest Male not being that into it
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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