Current location: London
Highest education received: High school diploma
Relationship status: Involved
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Romantically into girls, sexually more into guys
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Ten
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Shagging by Starlight
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? fuck buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was four years older than me. We had known each other anyway, and he admitted to having his eye on me for a long time, mentally adding me to his list of ‘dream fucks’ and waiting for me to be both single and old enough. Although we knew each other anyway, we had never hooked up before. I thought he was attractive, and had had a crush on him when we had used the same gym, but I didn’t think he had ever noticed me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We began messaging online and, me being an incredibly sexual person, I welcomed his advances and comments and we traded pictures and finally agreed that we would sleep together. Although I had seen him around and had a brief conversation, we did most of our admiring from afar and I didn’t really know him as a person at all. I can’t remember exactly who’s idea it was, but we met in a park near to my house late at night. I remember really clearly that he was wearing a leather jacket and his hair was freshly trimmed, bristling under my fingers.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was really late at night, and so we walked to a bridge that went over a river and was fairly high up. We started kissing, slowly at first, and then more passionately, his tongue touching mine and his stubble grazing my chin. His hands moved up and down my body, feeling my stomach and hips and my ass, which he liked to talk about a lot; he pulled my hair slightly where it curled at the nape of my neck, forcing my head to the side a little. We put our hands in each other’s underwear and started to move against them. After a little while I got down on my knees and undid his belt so that his penis would pop out. I had brought flavoured lube in a bag and got it out, spreading it over his cock and buying time to tease him before I sucked his dick.
He leaned against the bridge while I sucked, and stopped at some points to watch the enjoyment on his face. Not wanting to cum yet, he pulled me up and bent me over, sliding his cock inside me. I held onto the barrier of the bridge while he fucked me from behind. We did this for a while, him stopping to smack my ass or kiss my neck, and then I went down on him again, and he was panting and pushing my head down with his hands, so that I practically swallowed his dick. Then he made me stop, and pushed so that I was lying on my back, naked on this bridge, legs in the air, and he knelt down between my legs and started to lick my pussy. I wrapped my thighs around his neck and urged him on. I came over and over, staring up at the stars. He kissed me again, and his face was wet with my cum. He slid inside me again, fucking me really hard while we kissed and our tongues fucked too. He pulled out to cum in my mouth and I sucked his dick clean. We didn’t talk much at all during but afterwards we lay naked for a while looking at the stars and he walked me home.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I came twice, he came once.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I used the contraceptive pill. He had just been on holiday and went to get tested two days before i slept with him. I made him show me the test results before agreeing not to use a condom
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Both found each other incredibly attractive. I had just been through a vicious break up that left me feeling really numb and unromantic: I had no interest whatsoever in relationships and the idea of a near stranger excited me,
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? none.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After that night we fucked on a regular basis and texted. We communicated openly about our chemistry, but we do not speak as much now: when his feelings for me began to get more serious, I was reluctant to sleep with him and began to panic. Even when we stopped sleeping together, we remained friends, but there is always a chemistry there and hidden meanings behind our conversations.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told some of my friends, a lot of whom have a very different attitude to sex. Some said ‘good for you’ others didn’t say anything,
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes, on both sides
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the sex that came after it, when I stayed over or when we met up: the two of us were so well matched sexually and he made me cum harder than before. I did the same for him and we knew we satisfied each other.
the worst was probably the way in which the sexual agreement we made ended: I dislike that we ended bitterly and I never meant to hurt his feelings.
I think every hook up I have makes me consider my sexuality a little differently. Sexuality has so many nuances and facets that the only way to really understand your desire is to explore it, either alone or with partners. I feel that some hook ups are positive and some negative, but you still learn something from them either way.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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