What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Seattle
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? COO
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 35 yeas ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were friends from work. My girlfriend and I were about ten years younger than them; we got into a routine of having dinner at their house about once a month. This was when home video was brand new and he had a player. They introduced us to porn. We’d generally have dinner, drink a lot, watch porn, and then go home and fuck like crazy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No land no on our part. Like usual, we came over for dinner. After dinner, we watched porn, and that night for whatever reason, I had tight shorts that barely covered my boner, and my girlfriend was in skimpy summer clothing.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During one of the porn movies, our hostess went upstairs and came back down in a revealing negligee. After sitting on the couch for a while with hard nipples (and I could see my girlfriends nipples too, which made me harder), she leaned over to her husband reached into his pants and began sucking his cock.
My girlfriend and I just watched at first, a bit in shock. Then, I slipped my fingers into my girlfriend’s shorts. She was soaking wet, so I turned to her, pulled her shorts down and starting eating her out.
She came around the same time the husband did in his wife’s mouth. I had a raging boner, so we 69ed. During that time, our friends came over, and she licked my balls while he tongued my girlfriend’s ass. We both came hard. I remember our friend’s wife licking cum off my balls.
That is as far as we went. When we got home, we fucked and slurped for hours, cumming multiple times.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Fine. We decided we stick to monogamy though.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes,’ but I didn’t give a ‘no.’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes,’ but didn’t give a ‘no.’
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was a fun adventure, and we had a couple of great orgasms for both of us.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is not a big deal.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great to explore attitudes and impacts.
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