What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 10

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My then wife was blonde, blue eyes, good figure.  My friend Chris had an average build and height, and was dark haired.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My wife and I discussed having a threesome. She wanted to have two men at once.
We picked Chris a friend who we knew fancied my wife.
Chris and I are both fully heterosexual so there was to be no contact between us.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Chris came round at a pre-arranged time one afternoon; we were in the kitchen and after a cup of tea of all things, both Chris and I started touching my wife up. She said, “You guys are not having me in the kitchen,” and lead us up stairs. Chris and I stripped my wife who lay on the bed, we then undressed.  I was fully erect but Chris seemed only slightly firm. We lay on either side of my wife while she masturbated both of us and we fingered and touched her. Chris then became fully erect he then got on top of my wife entered her and started thrusting gently gradually building up the tempo. He then withdrew and I took over, we did this a number of times, taking turns to what can only be described as pounding her. She moaned loudly and climaxed a number of times with both of us. I realized I was going to cum, withdrew and shot onto my wife’s stomach and breasts, Chris then immediately entered her, thrust hard a few times, and shot his load deep into her. As he withdrew I saw his semen oozing out of her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We then showered and dressed. All enjoyed it and we repeated the experience a few months later. It was even better then.
This fully lived up to what we wanted.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing my wife enjoying sex so much.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Over quite quickly. It was all done without any finesse. Improved on that subsequent times.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? This was only the seconfd casual sex experience I have had

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting

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