What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Boston
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Paramedic
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8-10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Sharing Is Addicting
How long ago did this hookup happen? On going
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex / Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This started between my wife Amy and my best friend at the time. Amy is 5’3”, about 130 pounds, with long brunette hair. She’s a 38c. My friend is 5’11”, about 225 pounds, with a 7” cock. He’s married, but his wife has no idea he plays with my wife.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This developed over time and really wasn’t planned, but as it went further and further I didn’t stop it either. My best friend and his wife would be at our house a lot and we’d all drink. There was a lot of kidding and some flirting but nothing really heavy. We were often watching whatever game was on.
As medics, our schedules rotated, but his wife worked a conventional job, so if we were up late she often went home early while we stayed up and would drive him home later if he didn’t pass out on our couch.
Over time, after his wife left, my wife and friend would flirt a little more heavily. My friend and wife adored each other and my wife was very comfortable with him around. She’d often go braless and he was always trying to look down her shirt. Over time she let him. That led to them flashing each other, which one night, led to a handjob then a blowjob.
Once that happened, it got really crazy and became a regular thing at our house. He’d come over without his wife or once she left, my wife and friend would start in with one another.
No sooner was she gone then my friend would have his cock out and my wife would go down on him.
Once you share with a friend it takes the friendship to a new level. None of us expected this and I wondered how far it would go.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? For a time, it was just her giving him head. Every time he was over we knew something would happen. One night we ran out of beer so I ran to the store to get more. As I left, I wondered what would happen when I wasn’t around. I parked up the street, ran back to the house, and looking through a window, I saw my friend bending my wife over and taking her from behind. It was very exciting to watch.
The playing got more intense and he started doing oral on her each time too. One night when his wife had come over, I helped her carry stuff out to their car when she left. When I got back in the house they were already fucking.
One night, my friend and I were at a sports bar and he looked at me and said, “Let’s go fuck your wife.” He called her and told her his plan. She met us naked at the back door. It took seconds for the two of us to undress. Amy went down on me and as she did, my friend took her from behind. This was our first threesome. I was so excited that I blew my load quickly. He continued to fuck her. He stopped after a while and pulled her onto the couch and proceeded to lick her like crazy. I had never heard my wife moan so much. They switched positions and she started to suck his cock. I was ready again so this time I took her from behind. This went on for a while until he exploded in her mouth. This was too much for me and I came again and was done. We took a break and watched whatever game was on, but the entire time he’d keep fingering her and she’d be playing with his cock. Finally, he said he’d better get home. He left, but my wife was so excited we ended up fucking again. This had been our first threesome but not our last. Amy told me she loved having 2 dicks. She felt guilty because he was married but also admitted she couldn’t stop. I’ll tell some of our other adventures in the future but I never thought I’d get off so much watching my wife and friend.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My wife had been hooking up with him for a few months now. It gave her more of a thrill because his wife had no idea even if my wife had occasions of feeling guilty, but she couldn’t stop because she admitted she loved getting fucked by him as much as me.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told anyone. Over time my wife told her best friend who wanted to hear every detail after any time something happened.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Not only did everyone enjoy it, but I found it also enhanced the sex life between me and my wife.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We had to be careful his wife didn’t find out. It was something that you couldn’t invite her to participate in.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I have no problem with casual sex between consenting people. My wife loves the variety and how often.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think there is nothing wrong with it if everyone agrees.
You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!