What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Texas
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Finance
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Sharing My Wife For The First Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? After my wife agreed to try an MFM we placed an add on an adult site AFF.

Several men replied and after discussing the candidates we narrowed it to 2 and started chatting with them and selected 1. We set up to meet the guy at a local hotel where we had made reservations prior to meeting him at the hotel bar.

Started feeling comfortable with him after chatting for a few weeks.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It had been my fantasy to see my wife having sex with another man and after discussing my fantasy with her she agreed to try it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Meet the guy at the hotel bar where we talked while having a drink to get to know him better and decide if we wanted to invite him to go up to the room.

As my wife got more comfortable, he put his hand on her lap as we talked and kept moving it higher and seeing that she was letting him. When he got up to use the restroom I asked my wife if she wanted to invite him to go up to the room she said ok, so when he got back I suggested taking our drinks up to the room to be able to talk with more privacy. We went up to the room and put on some music and the guy started dancing with my wife and pulled her close to him as they danced. He then kissed her on her neck and started touching her body with his hands as he pulled her dress up then he kissed her and as they were kissing he slid his hand under her dress grabbing her butt. When he realized she was not wearing any panties he started fingering her and they stopped kissing as he pulled her dress off and continued kissing her then her unhooked her bra and started sucking her breast as she started to unbutton his shirt. She looked so beautiful completely naked allowing this stranger to exploring her body, she then helped him unbutton his pants. He pulled his boxers off and my wife started touching his cock as they kept dancing and touching each other, he then guided her to the bed she laid on her back and he spread her legs as he got on the bead and started having sex with her in different positions and once he came, I took over having sex with my wife as she gave him oral to get him hard again and after I came her started having sex with her again.

He had sex with her for over 3 hours he came at least 6 times and made her have 3 orgasms.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He left and my wife and I had sex again before going back home.

We have not seen him again

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife told her best friend she was kind of shock that we did and MFM but was supportive of my wife

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Watch my wife have an orgasm while having sex with another man

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The other guy had way more stamina than me

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes we are more open to it

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We are more open to experience things and it strengthened or marriage

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great outlet

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