What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Amsterdam
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Sexually fluid
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
She Made it Clear
How long ago did this hookup happen? A few weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Let’s call her Alex. I am 5’8 and she was shorter than I am maybe 5’5/6. She had short brown hair and was wearing khaki cargo pants and a white crop top. She was very petite and had a very structured jaw and the most dazzling smile. She walked into the bar with a few friends laughing with her arm around a girl. I’m no lesbian but my gaydar was going off like crazy over the two of them. They were at the table next to us and then she, her gf, and friends came over since the place was quite empty that early into the night. We made small talk. They asked us where we were from and where we study.
We then all left the bar and went to a club nearby, where we had drinks together. I connected well with Alex and couldn’t stop smiling at her. She was such a beautiful and intriguing person.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In the club, we all went to the dance floor and danced together, at first she was at a friendly distance and then we came closer, she came behind me and pulled my hips to her crotch. I started to grind on her as she gently thrusted against my tight, round ass. We went to get a drink. I took my glass and looked at her, she swept my long blonde hair from my face and came closer, almost close enough to kiss. At that point, I realized her gf had gone. I excused myself to go to the unisex bathroom of the club. When I pulled my panties down, I wasn’t surprised to see I was wet. I was so excited and turned on by her flirtatious and cunning energy. I wanted more, but I had to pull myself together and wash my face with cold water. I knew this is what I wanted. I’d been worrying about my sexuality for so long. I knew I wasn’t 100% straight since the day I drunkenly made out with my best friend when I was 15. But I knew I did not want to ruin someone’s relationship, no matter how badly I wanted to try out being with a girl, Alex in paricular. I wanted her to be my first. I wanted to know if it would make it clear to me if I’m just curious or actually bi or maybe even gay.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I opened the door to the bathroom, she was standing there, leaning against the wall. I froze. If she came here to wait for me, I knew she had the same intentions I did. She smiled mischievously and walked towards me, I looked around, scared her gf would see. She slowly pushed me back inside, walked in, and locked the door. I asked her about her gf. She said that they just came together but weren’t really in a serious relationship. That’s all I needed to hear.
She gently pushed me against the wall and came close, almost kissing me but didn’t. It drove me crazy. I leaned in and kissed her. She immediately kissed me back. I put my hand in her hair and pulled her closer. Her lips were so soft and warm. Our tongues worked magic together. She slid her hand up my blouse, coincidentally I wasn’t wearing a bra that night. She smiled at the pleasant surprise and traced around my small but perky tits. I was going insane. My knees felt weak and my panties were drenched. I kissed her harder, and moaned as she gently squeezed my nipples. She kissed and bit my neck, making her way to my shoulder and chest.
Alex pulled up my blouse and kissed around both my breasts, then she took one of my nipples into her mouth, licking and sucking it, while tugging and squeezing the other. I sighed loudly feeling my clit getting swollen and desperate for attention. Thankfully, she didn’t hesitate to move on and slide my denim skirt and panties over my ass and to the floor. She kissed between my boobs and made her way down. She kneeled on the floor kissing down my belly, and around my navel. I instinctively spread my legs, my quivering pussy waiting for her touch. She took her time though, gently groping my ass and kissing the inside of my thighs. She came closer and closer to my excited pussy, glistening with my juices. She kissed the outer lips and back to kissing my thighs. It was safe to say my clit was on fire. I couldn’t take any more teasing, I gave an exasperated moan and put my hand on her short brown hair, guiding her back to my pussy. She looked up at me smiling devilishly. She grabbed my thighs and dipped her tongue into my pussy, I rolled my eyes back and moaned loudly as she licked up towards my clit. As she licked in circles around it, I felt a warm, quivering feeling in the base of my tummy, knowing this would be it. My first orgasm from a woman. I arched my back and almost screamed out in ecstasy when she sucked my clit into her mouth and began flicking it with her tongue. I grabbed the back of her head and with one hand and the doornob with another for balance as she added pressure on my clit. I felt my orgasm building. I was so close. She looked up at me with her deep brown eyes, I could tell she was smiling. She continued to suck my clit and flicked it with her tongue. Just as I was about to scream out my orgasm, she slide two clean, neatly trimmed fingers inside me and lightly curled them, beckoning my g-spot. This sent me into overdrive. My body couldn’t take it. I moaned loudly as the huge waves of my orgasm rippled through my body, her tongue still licking my clit and fingers still working inside me. I had the longest orgasm of my life. When I managed to come down from my climax, she gave my clit one last long lick and kissed it. She took her fingers out of me, stood back up, and seductively licked my juices off them. I reached for her face and kissed her deeply, wanting to taste myself from her mouth. I lifted her top off and kissed her harder. I desperately wanted to taste her, make her feel the same things I did.
Then, there was a loud and fast knocking on the door and someone complaining outside. We snapped back into the reality of bathroom stall we were in. The knocking continued.
We put our clothes back on and left the stall.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? When we came out of the bathroom, I was still dazed from all the after-sex endorphins I almost over looked the girl Alex came with. She had a disgusted look on her face and stormed off. Obviously, she’d been waiting for us to get out.
Alex went after her and one of Alex’s other friends friends came up to me. He asked me “what have you done?” I was shocked. I told him Alex told me they weren’t really to gether. He looked down and nodded in disagreement and then walked off.
The experience was unforgettable and so was Alex. I have her number and she has mine, but I’m refraining from texting her. I know she and that girl obviously had something together that I broke so I didn’t want to make it worse.
She helped me realize that not only do I enjoy having sex with girls and being made to orgasm by them but also that I had a huge desire to reciprocate. It really cleared up things for me and I now feel more decided about my sexuality. The next experience I really want is to be the one who makes another girl come.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The orgasm was the best I’d ever had. It also helped me discover more about my sexuality and the extent of my attraction towards women.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The fact that I probably ruined a relationship sucks but honestly, she was the one who initiated most of the flirtation and she was the one to push me back into the stall initiating everything in addition to lying about the status of her relationship with the girl so in my defense, I was just a horny teenager ready to take what was being offered.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general?
Yes I will now definitely try to explore hooking up with girls after having such a positive first experience.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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