What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 16
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Broken Arrow, OK
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

She Wasn’t My Babysitter

How long ago did this hookup happen? July 2017

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Hanna was the babysitter for my 7 year old brother and 6 year old sister during the summer while me and Mom were working. She was going to be a senior at my school in the fall. I was going to be a junior. She is around 5’3” 110lbs red hair and green eyes. She has plump breasts and a bubble butt. She is a very cute girl.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was a lifeguard at the pool and came home early that day because it began to storm. When I walked in Hanna kind of covered her face and went to the bathroom. She came out a bit later and I could see she had been crying. I began to ask her what was wrong and after a while she told me she was upset with her boyfriend Tyson. Her friend told her he had hooked up with a girl at a party 2 nights before. She was one of Hanna’s best friends. I wasn’t surprised because Tyson was an asshole and I had seen him messing with other girls before.

I hugged Hanna to comfort her and she hugged back and then kissed me on the cheek. We stared at each other for a minute then she kissed me on the lips. I have a steady girlfriend but I kissed her back anyway. We kissed and rubbed on each other for a few minutes when she stopped and said she had to check on the kids. She got them set up with a movie and some ice cream then came back to me. She grabbed me by the hand and I followed her to the basement where we began kissing again. After a few more minutes making out and me feeling her breasts she led me into the basement guest bedroom and closed the door and locked it. She told me that she wanted me. I have a steady girlfriend but I was so turned on at that moment and she was so good looking it didn’t matter. We both took our clothes off and continued on the bed. We had sex for maybe 15 minutes until I finished then we got dressed and went back up stairs. She told me that I made her feel a lot better and I told her I was glad.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The sex was her on top and then me on top until I finished. We kissed or stared at each other the whole time. I felt like we were also attached mentally.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I carried on normally with my girlfriend and Hanna was back with Tyson in about a week. I haven’t told anyone and I don’t think she has either. Now I want to be with her but I haven’t talked to her since that day.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Everything about it was great for me but now I want something more out of it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Finishing inside of her and the fear of pregnancy. It didn’t seem to matter to her so I’m guessing she is taking some type birth control. I know I’m going to have to ask so I don’t continue to worry about it.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really but I think I may be in love with her.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think this hookup served a purpose at that moment in time but I hope more comes out of it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great thing and has helped me to talk about this.

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