by James

Gender: Male
Age: 28
Race/ethnicity: Italian
Current location: Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Manager
Relationship status: Good friend
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Drunk sex with a long time best friend

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? good friend since grade school

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was at her house. We had both gone through long term breakups recently and we were just venting and smoking some bowls

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She started it off with a blow job, then asked me to return the favour. All was well until she took her pants off and apologized for not shaving anything at all below the belt since the breakup (over two months earlier). I avoided it and just fucked her instead multiple times that night. The sex was good she was very kinky and VERY into it. It ended when we both passed out on each other

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes I orgasmed I think she did

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? she has an iud

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were both horny and lonely

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes a bottle of wine for her. 6 beers for me and multiple bowls each

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We pretended it never happened and are still good friends. Iam very embarrassed and I think she is also

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Yes and no. It has made things very awkward but I have kind of always wanted to hook up with her

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I got to find out how she smelt and how freaky she is. I learnt that sometimes friends can be too close and comfortable with each other. No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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