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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Scotland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 19
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 7
Shots, Snogs, & Squirts
How long ago did this hookup happen? A week
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Ron was wearing jeans, shoes and a checked shirt when we met up this latest time. And he hadn’t shaved for a few days as my red chin was testament to! For more Ron descriptions search my other stories.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Ron was in town for the rugby match at Murrayfield. We’d been chatting on Whatsapp as usual and he mentioned he was coming across and would be going to a nearby bar after. I had other plans during the day but said I’d get over to the bar as soon as I could. We discussed the latest train he could get home and I was really excited he’d suggested meeting up as it was only 3 weeks since I’d last seen (and fucked) him and before that it had been 9 months! Also this was a regular meet up which was attractive to me rather than surreptitious hotels, and we could both have a few drinks.
On the day I messaged him to find out his plans and he said the bar was really busy and he might head soon. I pleaded with him to stay put and tried to hurry along, about 15 mins before I got to the bar he was telling me he’d nearly pulled.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got to the bar and found him just about to go for a smoke so I sat with his bag and he went outside and got me a drink. He was with a group who I assumed he knew but turns out he just sat down and started talking to them. There was one girl being quite flirty but she was also upset, it was a bit odd and off putting but Ron said he thought she might do as the third in the threesome we’ve previously discussed. Maybe, but I think he was just being the player that he is.
He got me a drink (a double) and we started chatting and I was stroking his leg. He was concerned someone who knows me might see us but I was quickly getting tipsy and didn’t really care, so leaned in and soon we were kissing. I adore kissing Ron, he’s really quite gentle and sensuous rather than tongues down throats and I felt so happy.
He started telling me how he’d scoped the place out, you needed a token for the disabled loo and the men’s was horrid. I asked him if he’d used the condoms he brought last time and he said they were still in his car and he had none on him. That seemed odd since I thought he’d take any opportunity to have sex, but the thought of his cock in me bare back again was hot.
I’d been ill after we last met and I’d been blaming him for making me sick, after all he’d been in every intimate spot! He told me all he’d given me was pure protein and I wished there was somewhere we could’ve gone so I could suck him off again.
He kept telling me how hard he was getting from kissing me but when he went to the loo and came back the other girl was hanging all over him again and when he went to the bar she went too. I told him I didn’t care what he did and he kept pointing out that us kissing wasn’t putting her off. She bought him a shot and then he got us all one, so I was feeling very warm inside by now.
I was getting a bit more aggressive with the kissing now and he started grabbing my arse. I’d worn a top which showed off my breasts and he commented on that too. He seemed genuinely frustrated that there was nowhere we could go and wanted to put his hand down my pants but we were too exposed.
I took the opportunity to ask what had happened with his girlfriend as when he worked together he’d told me he loved her and wanted to marry her. Apparently it’s still on off and marriage isn’t on the cards but they have an open relationship and he fucks around regularly. Not sure how much of that was bravado but it made me happier there was nowhere to go and get tempted by his cock and no condoms. He proceeded to tell me how good she is in bed – but me too, how much he loves my arse and legs (more groping here) and how he loves how I squirt. The more drinks I had the better his dirty talk sounded. He said he prides himself on making sure the woman has a good time, I so wanted to fuck him but there just was nowhere to go.
He said there was a hotel next door but he couldn’t afford it and needed to go home. I told him I was free a couple of nights over the next 10 days and he said he was really tempted but he’s looking for a job and thought he’d be busy, but he’d think about it.
He then had to catch his train so we ran over the road hand in hand to grab him some beers for the journey and then he pushed me up against a wall and kissed me again before leaving me feeling all soft and woozy and waiting for the bus. On the way home I discovered his stubble had caused a big red patch on my chin so fortunately I had some makeup to cover it up before I got home to my husband.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? So when I got home I was still quite drunk and horny so I took a load of pictures and sent them to him – I love the thought that he’s looking at me naked, or my pussy or ass, or using a dildo, whatever.
I then invited him over when I was home alone but he was busy. I’d already shaved so I thought I’d try to get a video of me squirting since he’s asked for one a couple of times but I struggle to do it myself. I was able to prop the phone up against a pillow and got a nice close up of my pussy, I thrust one of my vibrators in hard and whilst I couldn’t quite squirt I was really creaming and got some great shots of that oozing out and my pussy gaping open, and he told me it looked like I was having fun. In all honesty, I didn’t enjoy fucking myself that much but loved his reaction and knowing what he’d seen.
I sent him another couple of pics since but he’s gone quiet and I think I need to dial it down a bit as I think I scare him off when I go a bit ott and get too demanding.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one knows
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It’s a tie between the gorgeous kissing and the sexy dirty talk. How can you not go crazy for someone who loves the way you squirt?!?!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? His arrogance about the other girl was really grating but who am I to dictate what he does. Having looked at her Facebook page, he has a point about the threesome and I could see us all fucking so I need to keep these avenues open if it’s ever going to happen. And it’s my bargaining chip to keep Ron interested.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Seeing Ron twice in such a short space of time and as part of normal life, not our work trip of two years ago which was like being a different person in a different life, is dangerous and it was actually quite risky meeting him where I live. I need to back off and get my priorities straight again. He’s fine apparently there are loads of girls he has on tap! I think he’s exaggerating a bit but then seeing him just flirting with girls he’s just met, knowing he was offered a threesome at New Year, confidence is such a huge part in it all I think he could have anyone he wanted once they’d got a taste. I felt a bit sad for him with the girl he loves not able to be enough for him, but he’s said it before it’s just sex. And amazing sex at that which is why I’ve gone a bit silly over him again cos he is such a great lay. He says he’s my itch I just need to scratch – I think he’s right.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Enjoy reading every day and love posting, not that I have anything to post most of the time. I think the part of me that gets off big time on sending the pics to Ron also gets off on people reading my stories. I also like to reread my own stories every so often just to relive all the fun me and Ron have had.
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