What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Ann Arbor, USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny as fuck all the time, but in a good way?
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Two days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 1) A good friend of mine, let’s call him Jackson, was visiting from back home; he’s a junior in high school, 5’6″, with a shitty version of a man-bun and a bear. We met in our Jewish youth group, and he’s been like a brother to me for the last couple years.
2) I met the girl at a Jewish summer camp three years ago, but we hadn’t talked until we both arrived at Michigan. She ended up taking my pledge bro’s virginity. She’s got big tits, a pretty face, and a nice pussy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? 1) I texted her to come to my frat party. We sat on the couch and started making out. I asked her to come down to the basement, which is the shittiest place you could possibly imagine. Nothing is finished, there’s rats, etc. We slept down there during pledge term. I threw down a blanket and fucked her and finished myself off on her tits. We then headed back to her room ostensibly so she could sell addy to Jackson. Her and I start hooking up / fucking while Jackson’s there. I pose the idea of a threesome. We laugh. Before you know it, Jackson’s fucking her while I’m getting blown and we are just switching off and shit the whole night. She tied my hands with a belt. End up both nutting on her face. Leave her room at 5 am
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In the basement, I was fucking her with a condom, but she told me to take it off (she was on pill), so I did. Couldn’t cum from drunkness, so I finished myself off on her tits (well I tried, it went on her stomach). During the threesome, it was mostly just missionary while she was blowing Jackson and we switched off quite a bit. She gave by far the worst of my 31 blowjobs ever – very twisty with the hands and quite teethy. She would ride Jackson while having a nice conversation about Wiz Khalifa with me. She was pretty shitty in bed. It ended because Jackson had to get picked up by his dad to catch a flight back home at 6 am so we left at 5.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? legendary. It was a great bonding moment for Jackson and I, which is all I really cared about. The sex was shitty, but it was a good time. I told all my friends, and they were shocked, but when taken into consideration that it’s me, they really weren’t that surprised. I’ll probably fuck her sometime soon again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We all discussed it and said yes.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The bro bonding with Jackson. Also, he gave her a solid cumshot, so I told her to smile and say cheese. Didn’t take a picture, but it was hilarious.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Couldn’t get it up enough for sex #thanksalc
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The whole getting-tied-up-by-a-belt thing was odd. I’m not good with submissive.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that it should definitely be a part of one’s life; it helps you figure out what you like and have fun. While it’s so temporary and essentially pointless, it’s a fun time and that’s what life’s about.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fantastic idea – I love talking about sex, thinking about sex, and having it!
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