by GingerMinx

Gender: Female
Age: 39
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: U.S.
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Self-Employed
Relationship status: In an LTR, Common Law
Religious affiliation: None – Raised Mormon
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Mostly men, but I do love women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5

Simply Unforgettable

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1998

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had a lot of fun from 1996-98.  A. Lot.  I hooked up with a new guy at least once a month. Most of them were what I’d consider “A good, fun fuck”, but I was totally unprepared for Freddy. This particular hook up blew me away and I will never forget it because it was hands down one of the most sensual nights of my life and I barely knew the guy.
Freddy was around my age, early 20’s, and he worked in a local sandwich shop that I frequented on my lunch breaks. Gorgeous dark, wavy hair, just above shoulder length; goatee, maybe 2 inches taller than me. Kind of shy. He had very mild Vitiligo, the skin condition that causes your skin to lose pigment in blotches, but it was actually very alluring in a way and just added to his whole mystique. He was pretty much the reason I went to the sandwich shop everyday. From the first day I saw him, I knew I just had to have a taste of this guy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I can’t remember how long it took before we finally hooked up, but it felt like it took ages to get Freddy to my apartment. He was pretty shy and I wasn’t used to that.  (Perhaps because I was used to walking into a bar, finding the guy I wanted and getting him to go home with me just by asking him if he wanted to fuck. Or I’d go to a dance club with my roommate, dance one or two songs and pretty much have my pick of the guys who stood there with their tongues hanging out after the song was over. It’s seriously not fair how easy it is to get laid if you’re a girl in a bar and that’s what you want.)
I don’t even remember if Freddy and I went out beforehand or not because what happened after we got to my place was so intense.
Wearing a little black dress with no panties, (my signature outfit at the time.) I straddled him and we began to make out on my couch. The first thing I noticed was what an amazing kisser he was. A. Maze. Ing. His lips were soft and full and he knew how to tease me with his tongue in just the right way. He’d lick my top lip ever so slightly, then deny me access to his mouth one minute, only to pull me in and completely devour me the next. It drove me wild; and yet, I found it incredibly sensual in a way I hadn’t with anyone else I’d ever kissed before (except maybe women). Normally I am anxious to get clothing off immediately, but his kiss kind of hypnotized me. I felt like a teenager again, wanting to kiss this guy for hours. It was incredibly intimate.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Eventually, his lips made me hungry for all of him. I kissed and nibbled my way down his body and unzipped his pants. That’s when I realized I’d never been with an uncircumcised man before – until that moment.  Freddy quickly helped me understand how to be a little more gentle since his cock is more sensitive than a circumcised cock. I guess I got the hang of it enough to please him, because next thing I knew Freddy yanked me off him, picked me up, rushed me to the bedroom & threw me on the bed so he could remove my dress. 
Sex with Freddy was the most passionate hook up I’ve ever had.  This guy was not fucking me.  This guy was making steaming hot love to me. Our breathing was in complete sync; and his eyes!  Holy hell.  I had no idea how important eye contact was during sex until that moment.  I feel like he looked deep into my soul as his hips moved in sync with mine. We moved seamlessly from one position to the next as I became his elegant 9-course meal. He gently took control of me, which I really love, and he did it in a way that was almost romantic.  He was so unselfish as he slowly but firmly consumed me. He listened to each and every little groan or whimper that escaped my lips and reacted accordingly. If I mentioned how much I liked something Freddy did to my body, he somehow found a way to amplify the sensation. 
We played like this for what must have been hours. I can distinctly remember that the only reason we stopped was because we were both so tired we couldn’t go on.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes. Yes. He patiently refused to orgasm until I did, which made me even hotter for this guy because I take a long time to climax if a vibrator is not involved.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None. I was a little reckless back then. Thankfully I escaped without a pregnancy or an STI.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I really wanted him.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? There may have been a drink or two, but nothing in excess. We were both very alert and lucid.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It took me several days to process what an unbelievably amazing one-night stand it was. That kind of connection usually takes time to develop. I was completely taken aback. His combination of sensuality and passion and romance and skill and LIPS (!) was so unexpected. The intense connection we had really threw me. I didn’t know how to respond. I couldn’t respond.  We didn’t see each other after that for a long time. 
I ran into him years later and he asked me to come home with him, but I was in a relationship at the time and really really trying to be monogamous. I volunteered to drive him home because he’d been drinking and when I dropped him off, my entire body literally ached with sadness as he got out of the car knowing how much I wanted to follow him into his house. My hands and legs started shaking involuntarily as I drove away.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I think I may have told a good friend years ago, but I have kept this one close and not spoken of it much because it’s too special. That night means too much to me.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes. Both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. The only thing I regret is not following him into his house all those years later. I wanted him so badly but was trying to salvage a relationship that turned out to be full of emotional and physical abuse. I regret not having a second night. I still think about him to this day.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was how in tune we both were with each other. How he was able to take sex to a completely new level I had never experienced before. 
The worst? That I chose to stay faithful to an abusive boyfriend instead of being with him again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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