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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Scotland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner, is 52 years old, 5tf 7 a keep fit fanatic, therefore a stunning body, with lovely perky breasts and a gorgeous arse. She is my sister in law, and we have known each other for over 30 years. We always got on very well, there were many long lingering looks over the years but never acted on any instincts or urges. Due to her beautiful body and piercing eyes, I had always had many thoughts of her over the years but never before acted upon mthoughts feelings.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I work away from home a lot travelling over many Northern European countries. One regular stop for usually two weeks is Düsseldorf, she had always expressed an interest to visit Germany. So she decided to come over and join me over the weekend. She arrived on the Thursday evening and it was a normal evening filled with small talk then after a few drinks more heart to heart and in depth life discussions. And we got talking about our thoughts for each other, she commented on the fact when she catches me staring and admiring her body, that I never get embarrassed and look away. I just smile and go back to where my eyes were admiring her body before her interruption. I could only agree and tell her how I thought she had a fabulous figure, to which she said so you think of me a lot do you, with a devious smile. So I was honest and told her I had thought about her many times, and in many situations and imagined what she would look like naked. Things went quiet and a bit awkward for several minutes, she got up and said I’m off to the bathroom then off to bed. So to my surprise she exited the bathroom naked and walked in and said ” well now you don’t have to wonder any more” and then went off to bed closing the door behind her. It was a vision to behold and tough not to break the door down that night. Next morning I decided it was not just bravery of drink that made her show her wonderful physique. And now it was my turn, so I went for a shower and left the shower room door wide open, before long I was not alone in the shower room

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As I washed myself I could sense someone else was in the room, I turned to see her sitting naked and touching herself watching me shower, I invited her to join me and she did. I moved around put her directly below the water flow from the shower head and we kissed so much different from any peck we had ever shared previously. There was passion, lust, haste in the kiss, I couldn’t keep my hands off her arse cheeks, they remained there as I slid down onto my knees and then lowered myself to the perfect height to move my head forward and taste her pussy. It was already moist and not from the shower water, her clitoris protruded and reacted to every movement of my tongue. I slid my fingers round from behind her arse to between her legs, slowly allowing two fingers to gently enter her pussy, and slowly thrust them in and out if her whilst circling her clitoris with my tongue. After a few minutes I got back to my feet, before she got her hands near my cock it was throbbing I fact straining to get at her, she guided it between her satin lips and inside her, the heat from inside her was incredible. The deep lingering stare as I entered her slowly changed to a smile, the smile we all see at that time. We “fucked” in the shower, not love making, not sex fucked. Switching from vaginal to oral to vaginal to oral. Whilst fucking her from behind she took my hand, brought it up to her mouth, I expected her to suck on it, she spat on my thumb and then guided my hand and more precisely my thumb to her asshole, and pushed it inside, this was all leading to me getting to put my cock in her arse, something I had dreamt thought and wanked over on many an occasion. And after a minute or so she looked round and said I think I’m ready for you to put that in my arse now. I hastily and duly obliged. We spent the day in the apartment talking eating drinking and fucking. Surprisingly no awkwardness what so ever. She travelled home the next day. The following weekend when I returned from Germsny we ( myself and my partner) visited her house, we sat casually acting as if nothing had happened and continued to do so for the whole evening. When we were leaving we gave the customary hug and kiss on the cheek, but our kiss on the cheek lasted that little half second more than usual. We have talked since and neither have regrets and we do plan to meet up again.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? No awkwardness following our hook up, we can both control ourselves, whilst thinking of how good a few days we had. We are now considering what other European city that I visit she would like to tour around some weekend.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one except each other

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was obvious we both wanted it to happen

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very intriguing to read the stories and see the similarities between so many of the thoughts I had

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