by Daniel

Gender: Male

Age: 26
Race/ethnicity: Latino
Location: Tijuana, Mexico
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Designer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Cosmical
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Gay/Lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? +100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Skater When Skating Back Home

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve never had a conventional or normal relationship and the only ones that I could mention would be remotely as conventional, I was 18 and he was 18 as well I could say years back he maybe the love of my life.
But I guess I was very young at the time I think just a little affection of someone can be mistaken as love, I meet him by friends in common he used to be the boyfriend of a friend. One night he ended the relationship with this friend, we crossed in a bar and under the liquor and neon lights we kissed and them in that night we paid for the closest hotel room. In time we started to go out, but every time we went to hotel rooms all over the city, had dinner, we had sex endless times others sleepless nights and others without eating we spent nights in bed as if time had no effect on us not knowing what was up ahead we just forgot one the other. Having spent months completing and returning we ended the “relation” that day the I was broken for a while and ended up between a states of depression my little microcosmos was destroyed and with an illusion. I started to  abstain myself from sex for a year as a covenant with the universe mourning my love it just died. AND thats the only one I’ve ever been with a “partner” before and after I only do hookups.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I saw the skater on the street on his skate board, I was smoking on the bench, I ask him the time, he was very nice to reply, I started to comment on his skate board, we laughed and share some info about taste, school, work and drugs, he mention he’s 420 ok, I mention i have some weed at home to come back to my place he agree. Once there we smoke, chatted, he mention he was bisexual and I mention I was gay so I kiss him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We have sex like animals, I have never been with someone that was so wild to have sex with a stranger so open, from 1:00 pm to 8:00pm in bed, he was a great lover, at the end we talk about more personal things and he mentions he has a girlfriend I was in shock, but I really did not care. We were getting ready to go and for no reason I remember I never ask him his name, I said thank you ……… he responded Adrian. I smile and I give him a ride near his house.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? NONE

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I LIKE HIS SMILE.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? JUST CANNABIS , JUST SOME 2/4 OF A OZ.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now?: I LOVE IT!
I WOULD DO TI ALL OVER AGAIN, I REALLY DON’T CARE ABOUT THE SENTIMENTAL ISSUE WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND IT’S NOT MY ISSUE.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend, upset for me. 

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Wanted for me

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general?: The best he made me smile, not only for the sex, very sweet guy. The worst is I will always see him as a toy from now on.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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