What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? USA, New Orleans
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Employed-Doing Fine
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Wiccan / Pagan
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? …enjoying it
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 29
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4
Skipped The Gym – Still Got Good Exercise
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1-2 weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Layna. She and I had been texting for a while. She came over for a movie once, but after arriving did nothing but text other guys. She was pretty but not to the point that I’d complete for her. After a couple of days of ignoring her, she began to come around.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was burnt at the end of a long day of driving from job site to job site. (I’m an industrial consultant, and self employed). I got a text from Layna asking if I wanted to hang out again..at her place this time. I would have been ok with going to bed early. But having sex would be ok too. I went home, had a shower, dressed for going to the gym, then collapsed in the recliner for a nap…I woke up at 7pm. That was a hell of a nap. I felt great…and liked the idea of waking up to going out for sex. I still wasn’t feeling they gym. I pounded a bottle of water, changed into my gym wear (T-shirt, compression boxers-briefs, and a Nike short which should have been washed.) I headed out deciding that the gym wasn’t happening. To Layna’s.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I arrived in my lousy gym clothes. She welcomed me inside; a brief hug. We later ended up on the couch. I still was tired despite my epic nap. I later suggested laying out on the carpet. I guess the bed would have worked but I didn’t want to be too obvious. Clearly this results in sex so I’ll speed up. I lost my shorts and only her, a fake-silk panty and my Adidas Boxer Brief kept us apart. We were on the apartment carpet and under only a throw blanket. I threw that blanked aside as I got up on my knees, pulled the boxer-briefs aside and my hard dick popped out. I was kneeling over her legs spread fingering her pussy aggressively. She was very wet. I gave her the option to ask me to put on a condom; which was across the room in my wallet. She didn’t want to wait and had me penetrate her and begin fucking her raw. Of course I did, I’m a bit risky. I…went to the gym…finally and got lots of cardio and worked in a good leg day. The only thing that changed was me pulling her legs up on my shoulders. I reached down, tugged at the black Adidas shorts, that even I knew I look fkn hot in, out of the way. I continued to fuck her bareback until she came once. She asked me if I did too. I told her I can’t go in her….she almost agreed to let me, which is her decision, and then she declined. I was ok with as most of my hookups didn’t end in with a creampie (My favorite!) So I settled for pulling out, sliding my slimy cock into her pushed-aside panty and nutted. Making a mess.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards, I returned my boxer-briefs and grabbed my shorts. The shorts weren’t even cleaned from the mess of my previous hookup and I couldn’t stand to put them on. I decided to make my way out…she didn’t even slow me down. She worked her way to say a quick goodbye and then to her apartment bathroom to clean up. That was it for me and Layna.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just close friends. They await my nasty hookup stores when we get together. I tell the stories in great detail.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I being able to still be in my own bed asleep by 10:30
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to traverse the parking pad of her apartment complex in my cummy boxer briefs.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I need to start using a condom…I don’t know these girls!!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nice apartment!
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m having fun.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good stories.
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