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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Connecticut
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation:
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bisexual recovering sex addict
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Too many

Sloppy Deep Throat

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? G is a young black guy that lives about a mile away with his girlfriend. He and I met on Grindr and hit it off pretty quickly. He has everything I want in a guy, which is to say he’s not fat and he had a big cut cock.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was on my lunch break and had the house to myself. I told G to come over so I could give him head. He took his sweet time getting there. I figured he was just gonna flake as most guys do. But he showed up in time for me to have some fun. I had put on some porn to warm up before he arrived.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When he got there I was very pleased with his appearance; well kempt and well dressed, nice body and when I took off his pants I was happy see his cock was even larger than in the pictures he had sent me. I started taking his 8+” cock in my mouth. Licking the tip and the shaft. I also undressed as I sucked and he started to guide my mouth down further onto his cock. I began to deep throat him all the way to his balls, so my tongue played with them as his tip shoved into my throat. I have a gag reflex but I suppress it very well in order to give a good deep throat blowjob. I take pride in my ability to take a big cock all the way down. He clearly was enjoying this as he forcefully took my head and shoved it as hard and far down as possible. As his cock was buried in my throat he fucked it back and forth like a pussy. Or like my tight little white ass. At first I was turned off a bit by his forcefulness but as it went on, I began to love it. I would pull out for air once in a while and when I did, gobs of saliva came streaming from my mouth to his cock. At one point I was covered in saliva that tasted a bit like cum with all the pre-cum he had building up. We continued with this routine for a while, me deep theoating his amazing cock and him fucking my face like a little cum slut. That’s what I loved most about it. With men, I like to be as slutty as possible and I’ve always considered myself a cumslut. Not many men can make me feel truly like a sexy whore but he did. As he continued to fuck my face he said he was going to cum. But I wanted it on my face so I started to lick and suck his hulking black balls while he jerked off over me. He had told me that he cums a lot so I was excited. I was not let down. His load streamed out as he moaned, hitting my cheek with its hot stickiness. More came, landing on my nose and more still on my lips and in my open mouth. Some made it on my tongue and more onto my forehead. It was all hot and delicious and I was thoroughly turned on. At this point I needed to cum but I didn’t want to wipe it off. So I sat on the floor and told him to come closer. As I stroked, he stood in front of me and I sucked his limp but still massive meat with his hot cum glazed onto my face. I stroked until I came, then, still turned on, I wiped off his cum into my mouth and swallowed. It tasted great. Then he left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He left but we’ve talked since and we definitely plan to meet again. He admitted that it was the best blowjob he’s ever had and I finally found a guy who fulfills my exact fantasy of being a little cumslut.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The way he treated me like a cumslut and fucked my face with zero regard.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have trouble with monogamy. In order to be more faithful to my wife I’ve been fucking around with guys since she’s ok with that but not with women. It feels shallow though because I really crave intimacy and building a connection with someone which I don’t do with men.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great though it’s become a bit too busy lately with all the new people. But that’s for the best in the end.

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