What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Antonio, Tx
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I’m straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a very beautiful woman with blonde hair, was about 4’9, had blue eyes, and an amazing body. I didn’t know her at all, only from Snapchat. She had added me from her quick adds on Snapchat. I didn’t know what she looked like until we started to talk and got a streak going. We began to talk about our past after we had gotten to know each other well after 6 days of continuous talking. We then got really deep into our past lives of our ex’s, and she began to talk about how she had not had sex in 6 months. Well, I did what every guy would do and said, “Well, I could be the one to help out with that if you’d like.” She was more than happy to cope with it. We ended up meeting at my place, and she was dropped off by one of her friends. But on her way over to my place, I felt like this was just going to be some kind of prank and be very embarrassing if it wasn’t real. But, I was relieved when it wasn’t.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We basically headed upstairs after I showed her around the home. We entered my room, and we then just sat next to each other on my bed. It was kind of awkward knowing what we talked about over Snapchat. I then began to lay down on my bed after getting comfortable. She looked at me and joined me. I started to rub her back from her side and felt that she wasn’t wearing a bra. So this is where it started to escalate. After, I asked her why she wasn’t wearing one. No planning was involved, but I believe we both started it because after I asked, she said, “I don’t know you tell me.” After she said that, we started making out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we were making out, it led to her talking my clothes off first. I was very hard and had pre-cum dripping like crazy. This is where was hot and interesting because I didn’t know how she was with oral. But she started to lick my tip, cleaning all my pre-cum, and it felt good. She then started to suck for 15 minutes straight, and I wasn’t complaining. I was definitely enjoying the moment. As a gentleman (what every guy should do after receiving a blowjob), I began to take her clothes off and gently eat her out, as she did for me. After I was done getting my mouth drenched with her juice, I penetrated her, and oh man, she was tight. We stayed in a regular sex position for the remainder of our time, and I felt all this adrenaline pumping through my body during the process. She was moaning like it was her first time and was enjoying it a lot. She was a very good lover and it was a fantastic experience to have with someone else. We ended up talking about it afterward, and I still have her Snapchat. She said she’ll let me know when she wanted to do this again, but the way our sex ended was unforgettable. When I was climaxing, I told her I was about to cum, and she then wrapped her legs around me and said to me in my ear, “I’m on birth control.” Oh man, I gave her that load, and she was moaning loudly and screaming, “Give it to me. That’s it. That’s right, don’t stop.” I loaded her up like a truck and it was a lot.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She stayed the night, and I dropped her off at her place the next morning, hoping we could meet again in the future. But not to start a relationship, just casual hookups. But I kind of feel like there’s some room for a date, maybe just maybe.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I keep to myself
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The way we made love and the way we did it. It was how it is supposed to be like and feel.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There were no flaws in this hookup.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Most definitely because sex is supposed to feel good in every way, not just some hit and go.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing more
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I get to meet new people and experience their desires for sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A good way to talk to people about sexual encounters and read theirs as well.
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