What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Indianapolis Indiana
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Welding
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was very smart with long hair and eyes that changed color. She was a bbw. Didn’t know her like that at all because we started talking then went months without talking. We met online I just got out of a 3 years relationship and she caught her ex doing drugs in their place. At first I thought it was going be a quick hook up

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day I was chilling at home and downloaded kik again and she messaged me. I gave her my number and she came over. It was her and her friend with a guy. They wanted to go back to the girls place and chill. So when she got there I had her in the kitchen just talking then we kissed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? While we were in my house in the kitchen in the dark, we started kissing and rubbing on her nice juicy ass. Then she felt me and was like let’s go. We go to her place with her friend and the other guy. We go to her room I lay down then she got undressed and got in the bed. No oral when straight to kissing and me getting naked. Then she gets on top and begins riding me and squirting all over me. I bend her over and she started squirting again. After like 10 mins of doggy, I get on top and we both came together.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we came, we went to sleep. The next day we went back at it. But I was on top the whole time. After that, we sat up and found out her phone was under us in puddle of cum. Picked the phone up and it was just dripping. We went to buy her a new phone and we set up a date to got see Batman vs Superman. So for a whole year we were fucking and spending time together being around each other family and being there for each other. Till this last August, we decided to end it and go our own ways but still are friends.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Her friends because it was laughing matter how her phone got soaked and she had to get a new one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I gained a friend who knows me better then anybody does

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was in love with her at the end. And I kinda blew it because she was in love with me the whole time

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, but it has helped me grow as a human

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It healthy for most people but there are people who are against it and that’s them

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Yeah, I like it, let people be free without judgment.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!