by Kath

Gender: Female
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Sacramento
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Marketing
Relationship status: Seeing Someone
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Hetero but have experimented with women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first

Someone Else’s Man

How long ago did this hookup happen? Six Months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? First of a Few

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Matt was a tall Hispanic man with dark hair, tattooed and muscular and physically very much my type.  I didn’t really know him that well but he had been dating my friend Amy for about a year.  Before we hooked up I thought he was hot but he wasn’t really on my radar as a sexual partner.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Since this is my first post I feel I should share a little background. I have been sexually active since I was 15.  Now I am not what you would consider classically pretty, I am a bit of a tomboyish nerd who likes computers, motocross and quads and going shooting.  I have never struggled with men either, always had my pick of them.  When it comes to sex I have been told I tend to act like a guy as well.
Now to the hookup.  I had been single over a year and I also hadn’t been with anyone in that time.  I had been in a long term and very serious relationship and I had been quite hurt and damaged when it ended.  I wasn’t really looking for anything or anyone.
Now Matt came by one day after work to discuss a party we were planning for Amy.  I offered him a beer from my fridge and we sat on my couch talking.  Not sure who made the first move, to be honest I would say Matt and I kissed each other and started making out and his hands quickly found their way to my ass and were soon inside my pants and he was kissing my neck.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was as if something primal took over inside me, I would normally never go near someone else’s boyfriend.  Matt quickly took my shirt off and fumbled with my bra  a bit which I think was on purpose and I unlatched it myself.  He grabbed my breasts hard and moved me onto the floor.  He sucked on my tits for a while pausing often to kiss me.  He then pulled my skirt off, and I was a bit self conscious of the fact I had not shaved my legs and pussy for a while and was quite hairy down there.
We were both naked at this point and Matt began to eat me and I began to moan loudly.  He had me quite turned up when he finally began to penetrate me.  Now this was somewhere I never expected to find myself, naked and sweating under the body of someone else’s boyfriend and also enjoying every minute of it.
It didn’t take long for us to finish and Matt ejaculated inside me and I orgasmed a short time after quite intensely.
We didn’t really talk much, mostly grunted and moaned but Matt did ask about a few of my tattoos and complimented my body and breasts.  Afterwards Matt apologized to me and quickly dressed and left, I think we were both feeling quite guilty but I did really enjoy myself, Matt was a great lover.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes I did and so did Matt

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? STIs didn’t really come up and I did let Matt finish inside me however I have been on birth control since I was 16.  I also took a morning after pill to be safe, I already have one kid.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I think it was a combination of being horny, loneliness, and lust

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We had one beer each, not enough that we could blame the booze

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was really sore for a few days, Matt was a bit rougher with me than I normally like.  I had a hickey on my neck and carpet burns on my back and ass.  I went on to hookup with Matt three more times over the next few weeks and I blew him in his car once.  To be honest I never really felt anything towards him, I just really enjoyed the sex.
Matt went on to break up with Amy a few months later and he really wanted me to go out with him.  Problem was I had started seeing someone I was developing feelings for so I wasn’t really that interested.  I am also pretty sure that I was not the only person Matt cheated on Amy with.
I haven’t heard from Matt since then.  Now I am grateful to him for fucking me as it got me out of my post breakup funk and got me back out there dating again.  I do wonder what would have happened if Matt and I had hooked up under different circumstances.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone and have been trying to figure out how to tell Amy I fucked her man

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for us both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why: I really enjoyed the sex and make no apologies for that but I do regret that my rebound guy was someone else’s boyfriend

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part was the sex, it was great.  The worst part was feeling guilty because Matt was Amy’s boyfriend.  It’s a line I am not planning to cross again.  I did feel a lot better about myself after this hookup and did finally go back dating and met my current boyfriend not long after.  As I said I tend to think of sex like a man does, it’s something I really enjoy.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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