by Saul

Gender: Male
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Pacific Northwest
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Bookkeeper
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Two

Someone Familiar

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two Years or so

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck Buddies/Sex With an Ex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Dawn is a shorter brunette in her late thirties. We have quite the history sexually and had hooked up numerous times in the past which began some five years prior with a five week long sexathon that led to me losing my job and our daughter being born.
Since our first hookup I have always been intensely attracted to Dawn and barley able to keep my hands off of her but it has only ever really been just sex between us. However we do have a daughter together so we have always been friendly.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Dawn and I hadn’t actually been intimate in about two and a half years before this. I had suffered a serious back injury following a car wreck and been unable to have sex for a time, and then I was in a serious and committed relationship for a little over two years.
I was dealing with the emotional damage of a recent breakup of someone I was in love with, work had gotten in the way. I had stopped by Dawn’s late to deal with an issue regarding our daughter and we were sitting on the couch talking.
Dawn was dealing with a breakup as well, and commented that the easiest way to get over someone is to get on someone else.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Dawn was someone very familiar with what I like and what gets me going. She stood up and unbuttoned and removed her shirt, and then took her bra off. It opened from the front and I can remember making the comment that was a bit naughty and that brought a smile to her face. Dawn straddled me and we made out for a few minutes and then she scooted up and I buried my face in her tits. I licked and sucked her breasts for a few minutes, I have always liked boobs and hers especially. Dawn had actually put on about twenty pounds since we had last been intimate but I had always thought she was a little too thin and I actually really liked her curves more and her boobs were bigger. I told her this and she smiled again.
Dawn was pretty eager and she kissed down my chest and opened my pants. She then began to lick and suck my cock and gave me a great blowjob. She even deep-throated a bit, something she rarely did and I came in her mouth and she swallowed.
We went upstairs to her bedroom and laid in bed for a bit. We finished taking clothes off and Dawn wanted to have sex again. We talked positions for a few minutes trying to figure out what to do with my back. That is always an awkward conversation but Dawn was understanding. We finally decided on cowgirl and she put my hand on her hips and rode me until we both came. We fell asleep after.
In the morning Dawn wanted me gone before our daughter was up. I went into her shower to clean up before I left and Dawn joined me. We have always enjoyed shower sex, not always practical but Dawn has a large shower because she enjoys shower sex. We both came again in the steam and the heat, it was all very intense. Afterwards I dressed and went home.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Honestly it didn’t come up. I knew I was clean, having been in a committed relationship for a long time and Dawn had recently tested clean as well. She was on birth control, but she was when our daughter was conceived as well.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was a little heartbroken and have always been very attracted to Dawn.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Dawn and I had a Mike’s each, she always kept them around for my visits. Dawn likes beer, but she knows I don’t care for when she tastes like beer.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We have hooked up a bunch of times since, not so much lately as there is someone else I like but the distance between me and this other woman is hard. Dawn and I see each other all the time when I visit my daughter or take her for one of my nights. People have asked why we are not together but as I said above it has always really been just sex between us. We have discussed trying a relationship but don’t want to unless we are sure because our daughter could get hurt.
However I do know one thing, I don’t think sex is ever going to be off the table for me and Dawn.¬† I could probably call her right now and depending on what is going on be fucking her within a few hours.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My roommate who wasn’t that surprised, Dawn and I had been all over each other for years and he was hardly surprised I rebounded with her.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? For both of us very much.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Mind-blowing sex with someone I have been attracted to for a long time. What this taught me is that women can get horny too and instigate sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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