What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45 yo at the time
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? France
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Prof
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 120
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a 19-year-old student from the US. She was nice looking and I met her at the gym. She was alone and a bit lost. I talked to her and we did some sports together.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I invited her for a weekend hike.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After the hike, I invited her to my place. We ate, drank wine, and I started touching and kissing her. She was getting hot, and she let me touch her tits and her wet pussy. I took off her pants and she spread her legs and I ate her pussy. Next, I stood up and offered her to suck my cock. She was too happy to oblige. A few minutes later, I took her in my arms and brought her into the bedroom. I put her into my bed and wanted to fuck her, but she said that she was not sure. I showed her a condom and she relaxed. I put a condom over my cock and fucked her for the next couple of hours. After I got my cock into her vagina, she became very enthusiastic and I fucked her in every possible position.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I drove her to her place. I felt great. She left me a huge love bite at the side of my penis. Later, she wrote me an email, saying that she “made a huge mistake”, “she had a wonderful boyfriend back at home”, and that “I took her off-guard”. Even worse, she called her boyfriend on the phone and told him that she got fucked by someone else. As far as I know, he did not dump her. I only saw her one more time, but she did not let me fuck her again
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I did not talk to anyone.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I fucked someone’s girlfriend. I used her for my pleasure. She cheated on her bf.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I did not manage to fuck her again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This was just casual sex which did not change my opinion about women 🙂
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I regret that I did not fill her with my sperm.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am addicted to fucking married or engaged chicks.
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