What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Attorney
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 71
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 8
Spicing Up Our Vacation with Some Bisexual Swinging
How long ago did this hookup happen? May 2017
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 43 year old bisexual female (hot) and her 56 year old boyfriend, straight. Met them on a swinger site. We were heading to FL on vacation and wanted to have some fun with another couple to spice up the vacation. They invited us to their home to play.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? They contacted us on a swinger site and invited us to their home to play while we were on vacation.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had some drinks then he gave us a tour of his home. They had a playroom with a sex swing and he ended up going down on my girlfriend, then fucking her in the swing. Then his girlfriend gave me a great blowjob. After that, the two girls played with each other and the guys watched them. I enjoy group sex, meeting cool people in the lifestyle, seeing women have sex with each other, so it was a fun night for me. My girlfriend has been wanting a female to go down on her and make her cum for years and it finally happened, so she was quite happy. They are a very interesting and cool couple.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My girlfriend enjoyed the female/female sexual play the most. I like sexual variety and his girlfriend gave me a superb blowjob, her technique was excellent. Since I did not have an orgasm that evening, I was still very horny the next morning and as soon as we woke up, I fucked my girlfriend and had a powerful orgasm inside her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Smoking hot lesbian sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Sometimes I have trouble getting hard with new people and group sex settings.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really. I love casual sex, sexuality and having new experiences with cool people. this was another fun experience.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? First time we have hooked up with another couple while on vacation. Definitely spiced up the trip!
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex. Sport fucking, recreational sex, sex without emotions, call it whatever you want. But enjoying the sensuality and sexuality of other people without the emotional bs that society artificially injects into sex is very refreshing.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it.
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