by Nona

Gender: Female
Age: 42
Race/ethnicity: Mixed
Current location: Sweden
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20?
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Sprained Groin From Cunnilingus

How long ago did this hookup happen? 14 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Two-times only

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? On a warm summers day I for some unknown reason decided to sit down by the entrance to Central Park (never happened before or since), and some guy sat next to me. Well perhaps not just some guy, he was a model and FINE as hell, with all that this entails. Body extremely well built and amazing face and eyes.
I think he started talking to me, but for sure I must have given him the go-ahead, a look or something to communicate that I was open.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I think we exchanged phone numbers at the park and decided to meet up later. Later apparently meant that I would invite him over to my house and cook for him. A little crazy and over the top me thinks now days. Number one, inviting random guys from the park to ones home! Number two, cook for same random guy!

My intentions were not honest, or they were 🙂 I hadn’t ruled him out as more than sex before the actual date, but sex was definitely on the cards as soon as we decided on meeting up at my house.

I remember him calling me as he tried to find his way from the subway, and I went looking out the door down the street. The man was so fine that all the women in the street turned around as he walked by (and stood still watching him go, I’m not exaggerating). I seem to recall that they were surprised to see my house as his destination as I was a little older than him and while I am a beautiful woman I was probably a little too light-skinned to deserve this black god in their opinion. Race relations in America, sigh..

Anyway, it wasn’t long until I realized that this was going to be sex only! He wasn’t the brightest and didn’t appreciate my cooking as much as I had come to expect 🙂 Granted, he was young, probably no more than 21 if I remember correctly.
He seemed like a genuine guy though, no games playing and rather innocent. He stayed the night, can’t remember if it was in my bed or on the couch, but nothing happened as I knew it wouldn’t. I had/have this thing that even when I only want sex I am not really comfortable until a good 3+ dates in, and don’t really feel the desire for that person either actually. This can be tricky, because if I only want sex because of their personality not clicking with mine, I will usually be so annoyed and fed up they just grate my nerves by the time we do have sex hahahaha.

We had kissed and made out (no petting at all), and I remember him commenting on how soft my lips were. In the morning I cooked him breakfast and his room-mate started calling, having locked himself out. T had to go, but it just seemed too abrupt, we both wanted to prolong it and so we did, with the phone ringing and ringing and ringing.

As he was leaving he forcefully pulled me down on the bed, saying he had to leave me with something. I was really surprised because our kissing had been rather innocent.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As he pulled me down on the bed, I realized he meant to give me head! Since I totally hadn’t shaved and getting head is in my opinion very over rated, I started to fight him off. He was relentless and quite firm, and pulled down my panties and proceeded to eat me out.

I cannot explain to you how good this man was! I wanted to give him to my friends, I wanted for him to start some type of school to teach other men how its done hahahahaha. He was A M A Z I N G!!! Typically cunnilingus is a rather mundane event in my life, it’s ok I guess, as a starter, but quite meh.. A couple of minutes and it is nice, longer and I am yawning inwardly, but guys seem to get off on it and feel all sorts of ways about it (if they are not Jamaican, they refuse). On a scale of 1 to 10, regular head is a 2 and his was a 100.

Not sure what he did different, but he certainly played the variation card. He had me going crazy, in fact so crazy that after cumming and cumming, I came so hard I pulled a muscle in my groin. Who’s even heard about something like that!?! I certainly haven’t.

When he was done he smirked at me and he decisively walked off. I was a mess on the bed, literally. It was like a truck hit me and I didn’t know how it happened.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, I had the mother of all orgasms!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Why not

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None at all, he was a tee-totaler and didn’t drink at all, so we had tea

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? A week or so later we were ready for the grand event, i.e. to have full sex. However, that was a disappointment, as I had grown increasingly annoyed with him and while he certainly was well endowned his lovemaking skills had nothing on his wizardly expertise in giving head. I think it would’ve been different if we had been able to have sex immediately after him going down on me, or if he hadn’t gone down on me at all.

He did call after that and I just didn’t pick up. He even called way later, like 6 months or something, but I thought it better to not pick up.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Can’t remember actually. Nothing that would be extremely shocking to anyone though, and my girlfriends were even more “liberated” than myself. Had they seen his fine self it probably would’ve been a different story though.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Totally

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all, I just regret not letting him do it to me again 🙂

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best was how skilled he was with his mouth, the worst was our incompatibility.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I still hope he set up that school, there would be a lot of grateful women out there!

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