What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Not into labels
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last spring
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? So there are two partners involved in the experience I had at spring break. One male and one female. I had met both of them that day at a beach party. We were sober because we were all 20 and couldn’t drink in the bars. They were both really attractive. The guy was quite cocky, but it was really attractive.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So it was at like 2 pm and there was a huge party on at the beach. Heaps of people were dancing and enjoying themselves. There was a huge stage and a D.J. (who I can’t remember) was playing so we were all dancing and having a good time. (About 1,300 people were there, probably more.) People were crowding the stage and I ended up grinding on a guy. We both enjoyed it so we kept going. After a while, a girl joined us and we ended up making out. The guy asked if we wanted to come back to his house and we agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So we got back to his apartment (a holiday apartment he and some friends had) and it was all hot and heavy. Our clothes were soon on the floor and we were making out and touching each other. The girl ate me out as the guy started to fuck the girl. We then changed positions and I rode him whilst she sat on his face. After that, we all fell asleep with each other
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We exchanged numbers and we still text to this day. I caught up with the guy once for coffee but that was all.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend and she was a little shocked as I was known as a good girl.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It led to me to realize I wasn’t just into guys.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me more confident in my body.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a great way to confess what we’ve done without judgment.
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