What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Warehouse
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Uninhibited
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30-40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Few years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was an extremely large woman in her 30’s. We met on a chat line for big women and admirers. Before we hooked up, we didn’t know what the other person looked like.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I got a room at a local motel and she stood me up. She said she was on her way all night until I fell asleep. When I woke up the next day, she called me right after I checked out asking if I was still there and wanted to hook up. I laughed and said that I didn’t have time to play games and she said that she would make it up to me if I met up with her later that night.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She said to meet her at a local park in the early evening and I went because I had been fantasizing about what it would be like to be with a very large woman. I still didn’t know what she looked like, I just knew that she was big. I drove to the park and got in her car. I wasn’t impressed with her face but I estimated she weighed around 400lbs, give or take, so she had the body and weight I’d been fantasizing about. We started kissing and I fingered her fat pussy until she was soaking wet and cumming. I was so hard, she reached over and tried to pull my cock out but couldn’t get my zipper open so I had to help her. She grabbed hold of it with her hand and gave me the best blowjob I’ve ever had. She was deepthroating and drooling all over my cock and she kept sucking for like 15 minutes until I blew a huge load all in her mouth and she didn’t stop until I stopped quivering. I told her that I needed to have her big body naked in bed and fuck her hard. She agreed and said that she would pay for the room. We went back to the same motel that I had the night before. When I got there she was laying down in bed and I finally got to see how big she really was. We started kissing and I was desperate to get inside of her as I took our clothes off. I got on top of her body and kissed my way down to her shaved pussy. After a bit, I told her to sit on my face and I had to come up for air a few times because I couldn’t breathe with her huge ass and pussy on my face. Then, she rode me until I pulled out and came all over her stomach. We’ve been hooking up like this for about 12 years.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was never so sexually satisfied as I was that night.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fulfilling my fantasy about extremely large women.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I love hookups now
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex meets a need that most men have
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a good outlet to share positive sexual activity
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