by lusty friend

Gender: Female
Age: 47

Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Georgia
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Hairstylist
Religious affiliation: Baptist
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best?  Bi-curious
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Stage Show

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 weeks

How would you best classify this hookup? Fwb long term

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We have a friendship that goes back to High School. We never dated. I am married. He isn’t. Mutual Flirting led the way to a booty call about 6 years ago. And that’s where it stands. He is an awesome lover. And there’s something I think he must like as well since we keep on.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He texted after an all night music listening session with a bottle of Jager.
Asked if I was awake. Husband had left for work. I jumped in shower. And went to him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He said that it was my turn this time – he owed me from the last time because I sucked him off the last hookup. I didn’t mind because I know he enjoys head. He put me on the stage and proceeded to lick me to several orgasms. Damn is he ever good at it! He said I may not last long but I was fine with that. He fucked me hard for 5 minutes or so and came so hard he was gasping. He said wow. Amazing. I agreed. Short, fast and awesome! He said he would now be able to sleep like a baby. I had to get back home to wake my daughter for school. He walked me to my car, kissed me, and waved bye as I drove away.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We have never used anything. We both are clean. And we have in the past shared our sexual history.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Sexual pleasure that he gives me. I am in a sexless marriage. We haven’t been intimate for almost 2 years now. So I need the attention that he gives me. And I know he knows to be discreet.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol for him, he had been drinking all night. Neither for me.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left. He texted me later. We have the friendship outside of our sexual hookups. No one else knows about our secret. I would like to continue our FWB as long as we both want. I don’t see him all the time but maybe a couple of times a month. And of course when he comes for his haircut! Lol!

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, mutual.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No way

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Hot sex. Not long enough. No, I enjoy sex and the taboo of an affair is what makes it hotter I think.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I like to think that it is more sexual release than an affair. I need the affection and attention that I get from him. And I know he enjoys sex also so it is mutually satisfying.

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