by Shadow Rider

Gender: Man
Age: 30
Race/ethnicity: Mexican
Location: South California
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Detention officer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Starbucks Hook Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? Few years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Half way relationship; fuck buddy; booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was very thin, about 5’2,” dark brown hair, Mexican/Indian mix,  with a beautiful ass. When we first met, it was like we already knew each other. 
Met her at work, she worked in a different department than me. 
I thought she was very beautiful and wanted to get to know her better.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Since I worked overnight and she worked swing shifts, I asked her out for coffee in the early morning. We went to Starbucks for a morning date, since that was the best time available for both of us. 

We were talking about school and things we have learned since attending college. I told her I am a human sexuality major, emphasizing in the female body. That must have sparked her in interest because after that she opened up to me like I was her therapist. 

After telling her about things I have learned in my classes, she said a bold comment: “You must be great in bed then.” This threw me off because I wasn’t expecting her to say that, she attended church every Sunday and I perceived her be very religious. I responded with a soft whisper in her ear, “why don’t you find out for yourself.” Shortly after I’m at her place, her father is at work, and we have the house to ourselves.

No prior planning was involved. However, I always carry a condom on me when I go out on dates, just in case such an occasion would happen.

Personally I believe that we both instigated it, she gave me a straight hint and I picked up on it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had sex starting with mutual oral in her living room, to penetration in her bedroom. We started kissing and she moved my hand under her tank top. After playing with her chest I moved my hands to grab a handful of beautiful ass over her pants. She began to unzip my pants and jerk me off. I told I her,” be careful because I have ‘talented hands'” she then jerked me off with her right hand and rolled my balls around with her left (which drives me wild). I then unzipped her pants and OMFG!! She had a beautiful ass! She wore cheeky panties and that really made her ass perfect! 

We’re still kissing in her living room and my hand then goes under her panties and rubs her clit. In my classes I’ve learned that blended touching can drive a women wild, so I used that technique and behold, she orgasmed. Her pussy juice smelled like she just got out of the shower, so I put my (wet) hand in my mouth and licked clean her juice from my hand. I tried to put my fingers in her mouth so she can taste herself too, but she did not want to. I told her, “you taste good” she laid back on the couch and spread her legs. So I ate that pussy and surprisingly, she orgasmed again.

After some oral play and some 69-ing, we finally made it to the bedroom. Now fully naked I told her “you have such a beautiful ass, I would love to take a picture” without hesitating, she bent over and allowed me to take a pic of her. 

During sex, she told me that she can’t orgasm during intercourse. I recommended we try playing with a ‘toy.’ Now I had one of those back massagers that vibrate in my car, the one you can control the vibrations. I told her lets try it and she agreed. I bring the ‘toy’ to the bedroom and try it out on her. She liked it so much she orgasmed again. We had sex using missionary, doggy, and similar girl on top positions. What I loved was that she liked to be spanked during doggy style sex and having my thumb in her ass.  What she liked was me biting her ass, and being on top (me too).

As mentioned she said she couldn’t have orgasm during penetration sex, so I told her to use the ‘toy’ while she was on top (cowgirl). She leaned back, used the ‘toy’ and shortly after I saw her eyes roll back… She orgasmed. This orgasm apparently shut her down because after this one she didn’t want to continue anymore. Amazingly what she offered was for me to jerk off and cum on her ass I also suggested she play with my balls while I do that. We both agreed. Then after a short nap I left. 

Oral, vaginal, and some toy usage. 

I felt great, this was my first casual sexual experience. The fact that she also initiated and was active in the sexual act made things much better. 

Yes I had one orgasm, my partner had 4. 

After the casual sex, we became more of fuck buddies/booty calls for each other. Apparently I she had a boyfriend who wasn’t giving it to her properly (which I found out AFTER we split up). We actually were really close to becoming bf/gf but she had to get shipped out over seas for the army. 

Good lover, not really. Prior to sex all the ‘warming up’ yes she was great. However DURING sex, she just laid there and had me do the thrusting. 

I’m not going to lie, when our ‘relationship’ ended, I was hurt. I really started to like this girl.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history?: Condom was used each time we had sex. No we did not discuss sti histories.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was attracted to her, and that ass was just so beautiful! I had to have it!

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No. Coffee/caffeine was the only thing ‘used’.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We tried to date and become bf gf but she had to get shipped out for the army so I knew it wouldn’t last.

I was hurt, I really began to like this girl. We had a lot in common. 

I don’t see her or talk to her anymore but I just hope she has a happy life with whoever she is with

Don’t feel anything towards her.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I only told my best buddies, they didn’t react.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, mutual consent and mutual participation. Yes I wanted her so bad, you have no idea. Her ass just hypnotized me.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general?: Best: she was I active and upfront. Gave a straight hint which made the guessing much easier. 

Worst: the heart break that came after the separation. 

Yeah, try not to get emotionally involved.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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