What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Scientist
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Starting as we meant to go on

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a girl I’d met through a mutual friend. We’d ended up talking together on a night out and she asked me if I wanted to dance. She was reasonably tall with an oval face framed by light brown hair, with large grey/green eyes and the kind of figure I go crazy for – modest breasts, large hips a big, firm ass running into strong legs. She wasn’t fat or even chubby, but she had a little belly (more on that later). Nothing happened that night, but she gave me a small kiss goodnight and we exchanged phone numbers. We texted quite a bit after that, but the content wasn’t really sexual.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At least two months passed and I was on holiday with a group of friends, not including that girl. Out of the blue she texted me and asked if I was in her city (I wasn’t) and if not, if I’d be back by next weekend. I answered that yes I would – and she immediately replied, inviting me to her place to spend the weekend. At this point I wasn’t sure what she had in mind, but in any case I wanted to see her and so I agreed.
After returning from holiday (which had been a rather disappointing time and most certainty without any sex) I called her and we arranged where and when to meet. I took a bus to reach her city and the journey took several hours – though I left late morning I arrived as it was getting dark, but it was summer and she showed me some great beer gardens in the city centre. For a while her friends joined us, but they left after a while and it was just the two of us. We talked about everything – ourselves, each other, holidays, politics, work, music…everything except sex. The atmsophere was great and we were staring into each others’ eyes. I had been hard for some time and didn’t want to stand up, but she said we should go to her place. As we were walking to the tram stop she noticed and made a joke – though we were in a public place there was no one around right then and I pushed up against her from behind so she could feel my hardness, starting to kiss her…and the tram came. We took the short trip in silence, smiling at each other.
We got to her place and luckily found it empty (she shared with two other girls). She asked if I needed anything and when I said no we immediately jumped on each other, kissing deeply, embracing and grabbing each other. That continued for some time, then she told me to get undressed and wait in her bed. She turned off the light and left, returning perhaps 5 minutes later wearing only a long tshirt. By now there was no ambiguity about what we both wanted, so I dived in – literally.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I grabbed her as she stood and pulled her groin to my face, taking her tiny little vulva in my mouth and lapping with my tongue. She gasped with pleasure and her legs started to tremble – after a couple of minutes she lay on the bed and guided my head down there again; this time I picked up the pace and also started running my fingers over the inside of her thighs and then inside her. After a few minutes of that she came, whining and pulling my hair until she started giggling and pushed me away. Without a word, she pushed me off the bed and waited for me to stand, her kneeling on the bed with her mouth open – it was clear what she wanted and I slid into her mouth, standing. She didn’t take me deep (I’m not huge, but fairly long), but she had a great technique and was so willing – it was incredibly hot and although I don’t usually finish quicjly from oral, after a few minutes I felt myself getting close. I was worried about spoiling the party by finishing too early, so I told her “If you keep doing that I’m going to finish”, to which she replied: “That’s what I want!”. It was incredibly hot to hear and at that point she switched up a gear, slupring as she took my shaft inside her mouth and used her tongue on the underside. I came, sparying what felt like eight or nine spurts into her mouth – she didn’t stop, but I felt her gulp down what I’d given her. It really was extacy and she knew it. With my dick still in her mouth she looked up at me and winked, causing me to ejaculate a tiny bit more. Somehow I got hard again within about 30 seconds and she opened a condom, rolling it onto my dick and lying back with her legs open. We fucked missionary for about 20 minutes (I’d guess) in a hard but slow rythym, while kissing deeply. At my suggestion we switched to her on top and I saw her tiny breasts and delicate little stomach moving as she bounced on me. I gently massaged her stomach and the upper part of her vulva and got some great faces in response. After a while she winked at me again and turned round, riding me reverse cowgirl. Now, for the first time I got a great view of her ass – huge, round, firm buttocks which jiggled as she rode me. After a couple of minutes she writhed again in pleasure and appeared to have two orgasms, she second of which gave her amazing vaginal spasms, causing me to shoot into the condom we were using. She fell next to me on the bed, sweaty and exhausted and we fell asleep in each others’ arms.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fucked all weekend and ended up as a couple in a long-distance realtionship, though we saw each other quite often. The sex never cooled off – amazing vaginal and oral sex; we tried anal once and didn’t get anywhere. Unfortunately I took her for granted and didn’t pay enough attention to her emotional needs and we started to argue and parted acrimoniously.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few people, but some time after the event

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing her get such pleasure

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Worrying that I was going to spoil things by finishing too early

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Made me more confident

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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