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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Finance
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years back

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a new joinee in our office and since we had similar interests, we ended up bonding over drinks and dinners. I got to know that she likes smoking up and we started each others house for stoner parties. Since it used to be just the two of us, we ended up having erotic chats ranging from type of kisses and our sexual histories. I used to start getting horny in our presence but nothing happened.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At our third smokeup, while I was too high and closed my eyes for a moment. When I opened my eyes, I saw she was so engrossed in her kiss with her roommate. As soon as they saw me, my friend came towards me and gave me a light kiss on the lips. I was hard but she asked me to leave and not tell anyone about it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At our next party at my house, there was already a sexual tension between us which increased with our smokeup. At one time, I ended up complimenting her midriff and asked her if I could touch. She initially resisted but then allowed me to roll down her yoga pants and stare at her midriff. It looked so cute that I stop couldn’t kissing it. I ate her well and licked her clean. Then I licked the pussy juices and moved above to smooch her with the juice taste dangling on our tongues. I had hopes for a quick fuck but she felt guilty and didn’t allow me.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next days we didn’t talk much because of awkwardness. Then after few months she got married and moved to a new city.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Smooching her with juice coated lips.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Maybe but i always liked casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Must have for everyone.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!