Last week, a Twitter follower wrote the following in response to something I'd mentioned about squirting aka female ejaculation: "For most men squirting is the Holy Grail of sex - the most definitive physical evidence that your partner is not faking it." But that's...
"I'm 47 years old now and I don't think anyone has ever made me cum! I have been masturbating for so long, I have my own way of doing it and I don't really know how I would explain it to someone else." I receive some version of this message almost daily from women of...
Whether you’re in a committed relationship, or just looking to have more casual hookups, now is the time to start having better sex! In a survey by Varo Money Inc., 25% of respondents made one of their resolutions last year to “have more sex.” While that may seem like...
The clitoris is the main pleasure and orgasm organ for those who have one. It consists of a smaller external part that you can see and play with directly, and a much bigger internal part that you can only stimulate indirectly (typically through the vagina). About...
Every day we are bombarded with inaccurate, moralistic, and pseudo-scientific information and advice about sex and relationships. How do you figure out what's true and what's not? One evening a month, Dr. Zhana, the CSP's founder, hosts a special event...
Orgasms are one of life’s most spectacular pleasures, but sometimes when you’re between the sheets with someone who doesn’t know your body intimately, it can be a lot harder than usual to reach the big O. We're here to help. So, with National Orgasm Day coming up on...
These 10 questions will help you decide! Non-monogamy is more popular than ever, but it's also more complex than monogamy. Jumping into it without self-exploration can set your relationship up for failure. Gain instant access to my video that teaches three...
Then this video might be for you... From a deeply sexually insecure Asian immigrant to becoming the most viewed sex educator on PornHub and being named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ, Kenneth and his co-teacher R.E. Zee demonstrate all the foundational...
TRANSFORM YOUR SEX LIFE In a long-term relationship? Wanting to “spice up” your sex life?, Buying a new piece of lingerie or a pair of handcuffs often ends up being gimmicky and disappointing. The new PlayLab from Kenneth Play will share sex hacks that his private...
Sex educator Kenneth Play has published a series of tutorials on his PornHub channel. Here at the Casual Sex Project, we believe in talking about sexuality in an open and direct way, and Kenneth’s teaching follows that same philosophy. Check out what he has to say...
Sex educator Kenneth Play has published a series of tutorials on his PornHub channel. Here at the Casual Sex Project, we believe in talking about sexuality in an open and direct way, and Kenneth’s teaching follows that same philosophy. Here's one of his famous sex...
Sex educator Kenneth Play has published a series of tutorials on his PornHub channel. Here at the Casual Sex Project, we believe in talking about sexuality in an open and direct way, and Kenneth's teaching follows that same philosophy. Check out his tutorial on anal...
Sex educator Kenneth Play has published a series of tutorials on his PornHub channel. Here at the Casual Sex Project, we believe in talking about sexuality in an open and direct way, and Kenneth's teaching follows that same philosophy. Here he is showing off his...
Here at the Casual Sex Project, we think a lot about hookups. Hookups often get a bad rep, but we are firm believers that, if done safely and respectfully, casual sex can not only make for good stories, but can also be super fun, pleasurable, and empowering. And we’re...
We're excited to share that Dr. Zhana, our very own casual sex expert, has started a podcast! The show is called The Science of Sex, and it's co-hosted by Zhana and Joe Pardavilla, a long-time contributor & pop culture expert with the Morning Show at WPLJ Radio in...
Kenneth Play and Dr. Zhana had quite a sexy week, participating at Naughty in Nawlins with over 2,000 attendees from the swinger community! Looking back on one of our favorite events of the week, the Sexual Freedom March, we were reminded of the progress made for...
Whether you're just starting to explore the world of casual sex or you've been here for years, there's always more to learn from others in the community. We all want our hook-ups to be as happy, health, and satisfying as possible. That's why we want to share the...
Looking for some summer lovin? Well, look no further. Kenneth Play and Dr. Zhana will be teaching workshops at Naughty in N’awlins this year! This event is attended by over 1,000 couples, making it the largest lifestyle convention for couples in the world! It’s a...
Here at the Casual Sex Project, we're all about living authentic sex live and having hookups that are safe, fun, and healthy. Regardless of how many partners you've had or how long you've been engaging in casual sex, everyone has some skill in the bedroom that they're...
Check out this blog post by Kenneth Play. Or at least Grant Stoddard seems to think so in his article for Vice, "I Hired a Coach to Watch Me Have Sex." Nothing makes me happier than teaching someone a skill that they're curious about but are hesitant or afraid to...
We know, it’s not an entirely fair question--what if both are really important to you?--but let’s say you had to choose one. Which one would it be? Valentine’s Day is here, and with it comes a multitude of messages to buy chocolates, flowers, expensive dinners and...
This post is sponsored by The T Bar. by Chuck What's your gender? Man How old are you? 45 What's your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian What continent do you live on? North America What country and/or city do you live in? Modesto, CA Highest education received: Some...
Finally, we have an app that is designed purely for hooking up. No endless conversations with no follow through, no matches that are miles away by the time you actually chat, no getting your hopes up only to find out they aren’t looking for the same things as you....
by Kenneth Play ..... I spoke to Santa, and I heard you’ve been naughty all year. But I pulled some strings, and I was able to get your name back on the (sexy) gift list. Ready for your Christmas present? FREE SEX HACKING INSTRUCTIONAL VIDEO! I’m giving you a free,...
by Dr. Zhana ... As many of you may know, my greatest passion in life is sharing with people accurate sexual knowledge and empowering them to have more authentic, more pleasurable, safer sex lives, especially when it comes to casual sex. This is why I am particularly...
By Kenneth Play, sex hacking expert ... I’m so excited to share my experience with the LELO Tiani and LELO Hugo toys. As a sex hacking expert, the minute I saw these toys and figured out how they worked, my mind was flooded with possibilities for ways to use them...
Now more than ever, casual sex doesn’t have to lead to negative consequences (sexually transmitted infections, pregnancy, being burnt at a stake...). Since we're all fans of sex-for-fun-only here at CSP, we're thrilled that the world seems to become more sex positive...
We've all heard about "hookup culture," the idea that "kids today" (AKA millennials AKA people born in the 80s through the early 2000s) aren't interested in long-term relationships or even emotionally invested short relationships, just hookups, physical and sexual...
New study examines whether men and women value "former promiscuity" differently Many people (women in particular) intentionally limit the number of partners they have sex with because they worry it could hurt their chances of finding long-term monogamous love once...
This article was originally published on Lelo’s blog, Volonté. As polyamory and other open relationships options become more visible, more and more people are wondering if that could be the right choice for them. And for a good reason: Poly is really not for everyone...
In most cultures, sex is considered something private, something that no one but the people involved should witness. Sex in public, where unsuspecting strangers could witness the supposedly private act, is a huge taboo and is against the law in in many places. Yet,...
If you thought that consenting adults has the freedom to do whatever they wanted in the privacy of their homes...well, we have some news for you. This week, a federal court ruled that Americans do not have a constitutional right to practice consensual BDSM. Of...
This article was originally published on Lelo's blog, Volonté. ‘Sex addiction’ or ‘hypersexual disorder’ are a hot topic these days, with thousands of people entering sex addiction treatment programs, a vocal and committed NoFap (i.e., anti-masturbation-to-porn)...
Oral sex is standard practice in sexual encounters among young people today, but how much do people really love giving versus getting head, does this differ between hookups and romantic encounters, and does it differ between men and women? Thus far, we’ve had a lot of...
Meet Handsome Exec, this month's featured Casual Sex Project writer. He may not say it outright, but his stories make it clear that he knows variety is the spice of (sex) life. We love how he captures the appearance and personality of each partner in his CSP stories....
Readers of The Casual Sex Project have come across the phrase "consensual non-monogamy" more than once. Whether in connection with Dr. Zhana's Hooking Up Healthy workshops or just through reading the scintillating stories, you've probably wondered about consensual...
Here at The Casual Sex Project, we're not afraid to talk about butt stuff for two weeks in a row. Last week, we called out Amber Rose for using anal play as a means of sex shaming. Not cool. Cue the think pieces about anal sex and anal play, few of them actually sexy...
By now you’ve probably heard about Amber Rose’s tweet at her former lover, Kanye West, where she insinuated he likes anal play on himself. It got almost 300,000 retweets and has been re-published in countless news outlets. ...
The first ever AltSex Conference is coming to NYC April 22. Among other featured speakers, Casual Sex Project founder, Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, will be presenting her work on the Myths and Realities of Consensual Non-Monogamy. Don't miss it. Early bird tickets will be on...
Three Casual Sex Project stories kept us especially warm while we were waiting out the east coast blizzard. We learned that a party, a night at the club, or a casual friend-hangout can turn lead to two people actualizing their mutual desires and having a hot...
