Check out this guest post by Kenneth Play about the amazing LELO TOR™ 2! ... Fear is one of the most common responses from men when I encourage them to incorporate toys into their playtime. Men often have the false belief that if they incorporate toys in play, they're...
Spontaneous sex is the name of the game this week! These storytellers may not have planned to end their nights with a hookup, but once they got started, that's where they ended up. Read on! Any of these sound like familiar scenarios to you? First, a guy recounts how...
Long-time readers of Casual Sex Project know there’s huge variety of casual sex scenarios. And that people have a wide range of reactions to hookups. It’s enough to scare some people away from casual sex entirely. Others have no problem with hookups and multiple...
We're 1 week into 2016 and so far it's been full of fun and sexy adventures! We have two favorite stories from this past week. If you're still working out your sexual resolutions for 2016, these two stories may inspire you to put threesome/foursome/moresome on...
Happy New Year! Close out your vacation with a few of our favorite stories from December. There's something for everyone: a hetero hookup, a first-time gay experience, and a first-time threesome! If you had any holiday hookups, be sure to share them here. Some hookups...
Welcome to a new Casual Sex Project feature: interviews with our users. You may have noticed the name Jacrou as you peruse the stories on CSP because she has shared an astounding 35 of her own experiences! What’s more, they cover a wide variety of different...
Holiday season means Holiday Party season! And for a lot of us, it means OFFICE Holiday Parties, where co-workers take advantage of the open bar and/or make questionable decisions. You’re probably thinking, that’s just a rumor, right? That the IT guy hooked up with...
This week, our two favorite stories reminded us that you can still meet a hookup partner the old-fashioned way... in person! That's right, not all hookups come from Tinder/Grindr/online dating. Read on to learn how these two writers met their casual sex partners and...
We're giving away a sensual massage candle, courtesy of Pleasure Chest. Enter using the widget below. Dr. Zhana will announce the winner on Periscope on Friday evening. Read on to learn more about the Jimmyjane Afterglow Massage candle sponsored by our favorite sex...
This week, we have two stories that demonstrate how much good communication is essential to a good hookup. What were your favorite stories from the week? First, communication wins in the story Who Knew Ice Could Be So Hot. It turns out that when you ask for exactly...
Non-monogamy is one of those terms that's most easily understood by what it's NOT, rather than by what it IS. As the map above shows, non-monogamy can mean a LOT of different things! How do you know what type of non-monogamy is right for you? Get some clarity...
This week, our favorite stories came from men who describe their encounters with straightforward women. When women aren't afraid to ask for what they want, men remember! Read on to hear from two guys about their casual sex encounters. It started as a joke...and now...
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Some things are just irresistible. Our two favorite stories this week explore ways people have succumbed to temptation...with satisfying results. What part of the body could be called a "helicopter"? If you're stumped, this excerpt should give you a little hint: I...
Originally published by Zhana Vrangalova, Ph.D. on January 28, 2005 on Psychology Today. Consider these two (real) people: One is my friend "Sam," 45. He’s a good-looking, charming man who’s had sex with over 800 women in his lifetime (or so he claims). Most of his...
This week, two of our favorites come from women who shared salacious stories of drug-influenced hookups with attached men. You'll have to read each one to see how the hookups came about. Here's a taste of each. A student describes her casual sex partner with just 3...
If you haven't seen this viral video that turns the "Walk of Shame" into a "Stride of Pride," take a few minutes to enjoy. http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/b03e988362/walk-of-no-shame-with-amber-rose The video shows Amber Rose in a party dress, high-heels in...
Your stories of Halloween hookups are coming soon! Meanwhile, here are a few sexy stories to devour in the meantime. Don't forget, you can join our group of Sex Blogging Superheroes (The Just Sex League) by sharing a story here! Now, on to this week’s favorite casual...
Kinkly readers nominated The Casual Sex Project as a favorite sex blog earlier in the fall and Kinkly decided we were one of the best--we snagged the #73 spot in the list of 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2015! Thrilled to be in such great company; check out the full...
Halloween weekend should always lead to fun. If you have a sexy story from this weekend, or any other Halloween, share it here! Now, on to this week's favorite casual sex stories! Here’s a taste of each...click the links for the juicy details. An “experience junkie”...
Originally published by Zhana Vrangalova, Ph.D. on April 25, 2014 on Psychology Today. These days, hooking up seems to be everywhere. Prime-time television is replete with tales of uncommitted sex, mainstream Hollywood produces movies such as Friends with...
Missed some stories this week? Here are two of our favorites. What Happens in Moscow? An American college student has an exciting encounter with a native Russian man who fulfills her years-long fantasy. When finally faced with a real dick, I was initially very...
See this billboard? There are four silhouettes showing two couples leaning in towards each other. The first two are labeled Tinder and Chlamydia, the second two are labeled Grindr and Gonorrhea. The only other information is a URL: freestdcheck.org. At first glance,...
Ever wonder how to turn a casual date into something more sexual without being too explicit? Enjoy some physical contact without going too far? Test the waters so you can decide on whether you want to swim in them? Relax and get "in the mood" before sexual play? Thank...
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Originally published by Zhana Vrangalova, Ph.D. on Psychology Today When people talk about sex outside of a relationship, a one-night stand with someone you just met is typically the first thing that comes to mind. It is the most iconic notion of casual sex, and...
HOT OFF THE PRESS! You can now watch my talk on TEDx College of William & Mary Is Casual Sex Bad For You? Our understanding of American sexuality has come along way through social science research. However, 90% of our knowledge on casual sex from research is...
