Current location: UK
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Relationship status: Dating
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
After Ten Years…
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand to dating
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 5ft 11 muscular athletic, tanned & tattooed.
Know him through social circle for ten years but both in LTRs until a few years ago,
always thought he was attractive and had something about him but platonic as he really is off limits
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Bumped into him in a bar in town, we had a few drinks and chat and the. Went our separate ways, by chance we ended up in the same club later. and well once I was drunk asked him and his friends if they wanted to party back at my place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After partying and drinking we got close and personal in the kitchen, we started kissing heavily and he lifted my dress off over my head. we kissed passionately all the way up stairs to the bedroom where he tore my underwear off and licked my nipples, gently biting me all over, we had sex for at least an hour in every imaginable position, me riding him, him from behind at the end of the bed, back to missionary with my legs over his shoulders, til he went down on me and bought me to the edge before sliding back in, i locked my legs around his back and with slow hard thrusts we came together
I slept in his muscular arms and it felt like I’d known him a lifetime over, we made perfect spoons, when we woke and it was light… he kissed my forehead and we made out again, this time slow and sensually. It just felt so right.
we made coffee together downstairs and he sat and talked to me while I bathed, then hugged me from behind while I brushed my teeth.
neither of us wanted the morning to end.
He invited me to a mutual acquaintances wedding reception that evening but I knew it wasn’t feasible we show up there together!
we exchanged numbers, i slept the afternoon away and then went out the evening with my girl mates.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, both of us, eventually ☺
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Oops no but as I know him I felt sure he was clean, both checked since
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Physical and emotional attraction, inquisitiveness
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, probably too much
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We spoke on the phone for a few days, and now we’re dating. He works abroad for several months at the time and is only back fleetingly for weekends until the new year. I hope this is the start of some real happiness for me.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friends, both of them said if it feels right we should go for it
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes!
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not now no
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Everything about him, apart from how I know him
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
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