Breaking a 2 Year Dry Spell

by Hella ass

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: East coast USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Short-term relationship
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Breaking a 2 Year Dry Spell

How long ago did this hookup happen? A few months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Didn’t really know him at all, we’d only talked a couple times before. He lived on the same floor as me my freshman year of college. I honestly thought he was pretty annoying and douchey, but I knew I was sexually attracted to him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? i didn’t really know him very well. I had been reading in their he when he came in. He started trying to talk to me, and I tried to act uninterested, but we eventually started talking. That night I had a very vivid sex dream about him, but didn’t think much of it. Later that night, I ran into him again. All my friends were going out but I decided to stay in. I ran into him, and we started talking. Out of nowhere, he asked me if I was a virgin, I told him no. Then it came up that I hadn’t had sex in two years. That pretty much sealed the deal, and we went over to his room to fuck.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? i really wasn’t too interested in him, I just wanted to have sex. We made out for a few
Minutes, then I sucked his dick. I hadn’t had sex in 2 years, but I had sucked plenty of dick, I knew I was pretty good at it. Finally we started fucking. It actually hurt like hell, I hadn’t had sex in 2 years and don’t masturbate inside ever, so I was really tight. But it felt so fucking good, I was so glad I finally got to feel someone inside of me again after so long.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? no, I never cum from penetration alone. But he did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? i take birth control, and he used a condom

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? honestly, I just wanted to get laid. I was in a ridiculously long dry spell, and I needed to end it.
It’s not that I didn’t want to have sex, I just don’t find myself sexually attracted to a lot of people, and when I do they are usually taken or won’t have sex for another reason.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? none, I don’t drink or do drugs, and he was sober that night

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? i was a little freaked out afterward. I snuck out of his room, went down 8 flights of stairs and went for a walk, even though it was cold outside and I was in shorts and a very light jacket. I’d only had sex with one other person, and that was two years ago. This was the first time I ever had sex with someone I barley knew. But those feelings quickly passed.  We had sex a few more times, more in the weeks after, and occasionally throughout the year. It was kind of an unspoken agreement that neither of us wanted to get to know each other, it was just sex, which is exactly what I wanted.
We haven’t had sex for a little over a month now. This sounds horrible, but when I’m not getting anything from him, he really annoys me.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Well I told my best friend who was so proud of me for breaking my horrid dry spell. I told a few of my friends here, who freaked out, because we have all agreed in the last that he’s fucking weird.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no, it was fun

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? well it was my first casual sex experience, and I really liked it. He was really good that first time we did it, so that was pretty great. Th worst was that I felt a bit awkward that first time.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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