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by Kevin Finnerty

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 11

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What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? First of many, ended up dating

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She looked a lot like Demi Lovato. She had tan skin, a short black bob haircut, and kind of a resting bitch face. She was about 5’6”, was thick but not fat, and had a fantastic ass. She was a nursing student at the university I attended, and we had a mutual friend.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our mutual friend had introduced us and had told us both privately that we were interested in dating each other. She invited me to a little get together in her room with some friends to watch Harry Potter. A bottle was being passed around from the get-go, and I had pregamed a bit to steady my nerves. We started off on the floor watching the movie next to each other but not touching. As the night progressed, we started chatting, flirting a bit quietly, and inching closer. The lights were off, and the other people were loud, drinking, and talking. I’m not sure how well they were paying attention. She mentioned she was cold and grabbed a blanket for us. I was drunk and was praying that she was going to try to feel me up. She put the blanket over us and slowly reached her hand over to my hip bone and started rubbing it. My heart was pounding, and I tried to casually roll onto my side a bit to give her access to my cock. She glanced at me and gave me an evil smile and started rubbing my cock through my jeans in a room full of people. I was freaking out internally and trying to find a way to fuck her without being totally obvious. I went for her pants, but she grabbed me hard by the hand and pushed it away. I thought she was mad, but she kept rubbing me. Eventually, the movie was over, the lights came on, and people started to leave. She got up and acted as nothing happened and didn’t even say goodbye. Confused, I say bye to the crowd and walk back to my room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She ended up coming back to my room about an hour later and was dressed in a tight white t-shirt and leggings. She came under the pretext of showing me a movie or something; I can’t remember. She was aggressive, and as soon as the door closed behind her, she pounced on me. I picked her up and put her on my bed and got on top. I was unsure of how far to take it. I didn’t want to try for her pants again and piss her off. We started making out, and I was getting harder and harder and start grinding against her. I grabbed her shirt and gave her a look, asking permission to take it off. She shook her head and pushed me onto my side and climbed on top of me, pinning me down with her hands, and grinding her pussy on me through her thin leggings. I was horny as fuck, hard as fuck, and starting to get blue balls.

I told her honestly, “I am sorry, but I’m horny and sore, and I need to take care of this. Can you step out for just a second?”

She rolled her eyes, climbed off me, and said, “Come on, I’ll do it,” and unbuttoned my jeans and pulled down my underwear. “Nice cock,” she said as she started stroking me. It happened too suddenly that I was stunned. She saw my face and laughed. “It’s okay. I know how guys are. You need to cum after something like this.” She knew what she was doing. She was giving me long strokes, switching between fast and slow, playing with my balls with her other hand, and kissing my neck. It was the best handjob I’ve ever had. I could feel myself getting close to cumming, and she could feel my balls getting tighter with her hand.

“Am I going to make you cum?”

I was overwhelmed, so I closed my eyes and noded my head.

“Look at me,” she said in a forceful tone. “Cum for me and look at me when you cum.”

I did as she commanded. I came so hard that I winced with every spurt, but I held eye contact with those big, brown, slightly sadistic eyes. She giggled when I was done. “Good boy. I’ll clean you up,” and grabbed some tissues from the nightstand.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We ended up dating for about 7 months.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No because I was planning on asking her out.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The entire scenario was hot as fuck: being with a dominant woman, public sex, everything. I loved her giving me orders.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not getting to cum in her pussy, but I did that eventually.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Thumbs up.

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