Location: Linkoping, Sweden
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Religious affiliation: Asgardian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? One year-ish
How would you best classify this hookup: Fuck-buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Short-ish, Nigerian former photomodel, athletic like a boxer. Small boobs, butt to kill for like all athletes, and… aggressively passionate.
Met at school. Not much feel beforehand since we hooked up the first night we met.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hooked up the first night we met, and it gave me a new view of the dangers of female thigh strength. We got drunk, ended up hooking up. We barely knew each other’s names. Like all hookups with a person you meet every day, hang out with, and share friends with – it got weirdly tense. Then we had a chat and five minutes later we were at her place using the apartment like the metaphorical casting couch we are all ashamed we know about.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Fairly basic – 69, the cowgirl, the missionary, reverse cowgirl, bent over bed, sitting, etc.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We have never used condoms, which is stupid beyond stupid, but she was on the pill.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Horny. And it was good enough to excuse PE and a hangover.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Two to three rum and coke each, unless nicotine counts.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We tried to have a relationship, but it quite physically, I mentioned the boxer build above, ended. Yet, when proverbial need arose all she or I needed to say was “its past 2am” and that was it.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Filmmakers are a tight bunch so you cant breathe without a log. Everyone knew, and some lived next door to her. And as the only pale, tall, nocturnal Swede, it was obvious who was coming and going.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Oh yes, on both parts. It repeated for a reason.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? That I couldn’t meet someone else. I like sex just as much as the next person, but feeling for the person of coitus I find to be essential.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The first night it lasted four hours. Non stop. And afterwards it prolonged and improved.
Bad… I don’t like flurry fist punches to the general bodily area.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Once you go black…
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